What do women want?

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Sep 23, 2016
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You tell me, so I can become like that and find a girlfriend.
 
Sep 23, 2016
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You will never find that if you change yourself into a ''sterotype'' that you will find a woman and be perfect for them. Uniqueness is the best. Be yourself. Dont change yourself (unless its obviously wrong like getting anger tantrums etc) just because you wanna get a woman. Most likely the way you are will be what a women searches for in her man. Plus it shouldnt be about getting a girlfriend.. woman most likely dont just wanna be a girlfriend, but a wife etc.
Best question to ask yourself is: Am I ready for a relationship? Am I ready to take the burden and problems of another person on my shoulders?
Can I truly say that I can deal with my own problems perfectly? etc
Yeah, I lived with an ice addict for a while. It was hard, but alot got through, on both ends. I did take ice for a little while too, to see what it does and what that person is going through.

I'm not going to lie to you, it was a very very hard relationship, but I came out understanding so much more.

Yeah, I'd say I'm ready.
 

EmilyNats

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You need to be what the Bible says you ought to be, not what most women might like you to be.

Loving, joyful, peaceful, good, kind, gentle, faithful. If you have all that, I would say you are doing real good.

That said, a nice body don't hurt.
 
Sep 23, 2016
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You need to be what the Bible says you ought to be, not what most women might like you to be.

Loving, joyful, peaceful, good, kind, gentle, faithful. If you have all that, I would say you are doing real good.

That said, a nice body don't hurt.
Fruits of the spirit.
 
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kaylagrl

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Go on.

(10 characters or less)
Sorry, I know this is the singles forum but a bit of advice. What a woman wants and girl wants are two different things. And that has nothing to do with age,it has to do with maturity. A lot of people can't tell the difference and keep falling into immature relationships that don't last.
 
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I can only speak for myself.

I want a man who loves Christ with his entire being. Everything else, looks, etc, follows after that.

Only the best for me.
 

Fenner

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Women want ,

1. To be treated respectfully. She should also treat you the same way.

2. Affection, it's nice when someone reaches out to hold your hand or just puts there arm over your shoulder, just because.

3. Honesty, again this takes 2, share your feelings, don't think she knows how you feel, she might not. As women we're told over and over, it's lady like to let the man make the first move. We aren't playing games, we're waiting for you to tell us you'd like to have a relationship with us.

4. Be a gentleman, good manners and hold open a door, you don't have to do it all the time, but chivalry isn't dead.
 

EmilyNats

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Sorry, I know this is the singles forum but a bit of advice. What a woman wants and girl wants are two different things.
Such is true. And that is why the haircut and muscles were an after thought rather than the main point.
 
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kaylagrl

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Such is true. And that is why the haircut and muscles were an after thought rather than the main point.
I wasn't trying to knock your comment, just add advice ;)
 

EmilyNats

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A nice haircut and toned muscles will get you anywhere. :rolleyes:
True enough. And as off to prove it, look at all the talentless celebrities we have everywhere. But they are good looking. But good, solid qualities will make a man all the more attractive. But good looks leave a temporary impression, while a good character leaves a more long term one.
 
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NukePooch

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A nice haircut and toned muscles will get you anywhere. :rolleyes:

Except at the front of the line for the next Star Wars or Lord of the Rings movie premiere, the grand opening of a new buffet restaurant, or the doors of walmart on Black Friday morning...
 

Lynx

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Except at the front of the line for the next Star Wars or Lord of the Rings movie premiere, the grand opening of a new buffet restaurant, or the doors of walmart on Black Friday morning...
Fortunately I stay away from all those. Especially that last one.
 
Sep 23, 2016
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Women want ,

1. To be treated respectfully. She should also treat you the same way.

2. Affection, it's nice when someone reaches out to hold your hand or just puts there arm over your shoulder, just because.

3. Honesty, again this takes 2, share your feelings, don't think she knows how you feel, she might not. As women we're told over and over, it's lady like to let the man make the first move. We aren't playing games, we're waiting for you to tell us you'd like to have a relationship with us.

4. Be a gentleman, good manners and hold open a door, you don't have to do it all the time, but chivalry isn't dead.
All excellent directions, thankyou.
 
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kaylagrl

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All excellent directions, thankyou.
Your account says you are separated. If so,perhaps you need to deal with that before you start looking for another woman.
 

azlightsout

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You tell me, so I can become like that and find a girlfriend.
Who cares what women want . Your setting yourself up for failure. Fix yourself up . Worry about yourself and they will FLOCK to u.