What kind of single are you?

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What kind of single are you?

  • Too young/not ready for love

    Votes: 3 3.4%
  • Love is not the priority/breadwinners

    Votes: 8 9.2%
  • Workaholics/no time for love

    Votes: 6 6.9%
  • Looking for mr perfect/high standards

    Votes: 18 20.7%
  • attracts no one/attracts the wrong one/always friendzoned

    Votes: 22 25.3%
  • Brokenhearted/afraid to love again

    Votes: 15 17.2%
  • Desperate/ready to marry anyone

    Votes: 4 4.6%
  • Happily single and not afraid to be single forever

    Votes: 24 27.6%
  • Others

    Votes: 20 23.0%

  • Total voters
    87
Mar 11, 2016
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abigail.pro
#22
Love is not the priority/breadwinners
Workaholics/no time for love
Looking for mr perfect/high standards
Happily single and not afraid to be single forever

Pretty much sums up everything for me.
 

AsifinPassing

Senior Member
Jul 13, 2010
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#23
I'm the 'other' category... That LIIIiitttlee red sliver over there...

 

Yeraza_Bats

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Dec 11, 2014
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#26
My childhood cartoon right there....
I really liked Vicki growing up. She was way mean to Timmy but for some reason I really liked her character : p

She actually makes me think of a girl who bullied me in middle school. She also had red hair : p
 

laughingheart

Senior Member
Sep 21, 2016
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#27
I am the one who decided that her son would have as normal and stable a life as possible and that that didn't include his mom dating. It was the right decision for me. I've spent time with friends, family, church. I have taken acting classes, traveled and developed as an artist. I have found my strength is living a life where I choose my actions rather than being reactive. It is peaceful and strong. It can be emotionally lonely as most of my single female friends now have men/husbands. I am not closed to meeting someone special but I am not hunting someone to fill a certain role in my life. My son has finished school so that opens up more options for my personal life.
One of the pluses of being single is that it allows me to push myself rather than make excuses for not trying. It is on me now and I am OK with what is to come.
 
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Lenardzw

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Jul 31, 2015
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#28
I am the one who decided that her son would have as normal and stable a life as possible and that that didn't include his mom dating. It was the right decision for me. I've spent time with friends, family, church. I have taken acting classes, traveled and developed as an artist. I have found my strength is living a life where I choose my actions rather than being reactive. It is peaceful and strong. It can be emotionally lonely as most of my single female friends now have men/husbands. I am not closed to meeting someone special but I am not hunting someone to fill a certain role in my life. My son has finished school so that opens up more options for my personal life.
One of the pluses of being single is that it allows me to push myself rather than make excuses for not trying. It is on me now and I am OK with what is to come.
Bravo! Great mindset.
 
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#29
Other.

Only because I don't know how to describe how screwed up i am.
 

Socreta93

Senior Member
Jul 28, 2015
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#30
attracts no one/attracts the wrong one/always friendzoned
 

cinder

Senior Member
Mar 26, 2014
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#31
I finally thought of a good answer for this:

I'm the kind of single who wants to talk about other things than being single and dating.
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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#32
The only kind of single I can be.. :confused: lol
 

Tinkerbell725

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Jul 19, 2014
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#35
attracts no one/attracts the wrong one/always friendzoned
About attracting the wrong one or the bad one. The best way to assure you will find someone good is to REQUIRE someone to be good. The bad ones will move on to someone else, and you will be open to the good.
 
G

Galatea

Guest
#40
I tend to attract strange people

- One guy walked towards me at a bus stop, I assumed he was going to ask me something, he kissed me.
I threatened to bash his brains out, thankfully he took me more or less seriously and walked away.

- Another guy grabbed me between the legs at a concert

-My best (Norwegian) friend in Scotland had to be told every week I wasn't interested in more than friendship

- The only guy who did treat me with respect was too preoccupied with work so it faded into nothingness
Was Donald Trump guy number one and two? :) jk