What kind of single are you?

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What kind of single are you?

  • Too young/not ready for love

    Votes: 3 3.4%
  • Love is not the priority/breadwinners

    Votes: 8 9.2%
  • Workaholics/no time for love

    Votes: 6 6.9%
  • Looking for mr perfect/high standards

    Votes: 18 20.7%
  • attracts no one/attracts the wrong one/always friendzoned

    Votes: 22 25.3%
  • Brokenhearted/afraid to love again

    Votes: 15 17.2%
  • Desperate/ready to marry anyone

    Votes: 4 4.6%
  • Happily single and not afraid to be single forever

    Votes: 24 27.6%
  • Others

    Votes: 20 23.0%

  • Total voters
    87
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Jurnie

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I'm south african. ..it's important to know that there are lots of hoax and sad realities of imposter pastors that work with witchcraft. ..it's just up to us to have the Lord's discernment to pray against these things.
 
Apr 1, 2016
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I feel like certain aspects of several boxes apply to me, but no one single box best defines me.

I've had 2 adult relationships my entire life (I'm painfully introverted). Although I had high standards, I accepted both guys for who they were. Both were long term serious relationships that obviously ultimately failed. My standards are high in that I want a husband who knows, pursues, and loves Christ. I want someone who will lead by example. But, I also have a doctoral degree and so I'd like someone with the same or similar degree. At age 37, especially where i live, this is nearly impossible to find.

I do believe that the Lord does want me to be married with children. But this time of solitude, I've come to learn and (via kicking and screaming) accept, is a time of refinement and personal development in my relationship with Christ. So I'm actually content with being single b/c I know that He will bring my husband to me.
 

trofimus

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Aug 17, 2015
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Something between:

a) Looking for the perfect one/high standards
b) Brokenhearted/afraid to love again
c) Happily single and not afraid to be single forever
 

Dai3234

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Sep 6, 2016
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I don't attract most people. I'm not totally ugly. I'm probably too quiet, too much of a loner. I don't have friends. I'm not the type to make them because most people are poor friends or have little similar interests. I live at home, I smoke. I'm not built like a rugby player, I'm a Christian, I don't drink and I'm not very chatty, funny or forward. I suppose feeling put down by nearly everyone for 30years+ also gives a confidence stigma. So I just give up. There's not many people to choose from either.
 
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Yahweh_is_gracious

Guest
I'm the kind of single that is way north of the hot-crazy line. My data point is a definite outlier according to scatterplot and boxplot. My data point has a high Cook's D value.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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Careful with those scatterplots...



And if she labeled her axes he could tell her exactly how MUCH better he could do than her.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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Although some data points can be mighty convincing...

 
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DrawMeClose

Guest
The kind of who enjoys being single, love being single, who can wait for God's chosen one for me. When suddenly, just about handing my fare on the jeep, someone bumped my arm, looking to see who it was.. my crush, oh, suddenly ask God to please hurry up. Kidding :p

No greater love like His love so I will always desire for His love and wait for His perfect time.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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Can you speak english? :)

Are you saying that you are eccentric? :confused:
He doesn't have enough money to be eccentric.

"Normal people are crazy.
Rich people are eccentric."

You have to have at least seven million US dollars to be eccentric. Otherwise you're just crazy.
 

Tinkerbell725

Senior Member
Jul 19, 2014
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Philippines Age 40
He doesn't have enough money to be eccentric.

"Normal people are crazy.
Rich people are eccentric."

You have to have at least seven million US dollars to be eccentric. Otherwise you're just crazy.
Are you sure about that? YIG could be a secret millionaire. Crazy is crazy whether you are rich or poor. How descriminating...
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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'Tis the way of life. After all other discrimination has ceased, rich/poor discrimination will still be a factor.
 

garet82

Senior Member
Jan 20, 2011
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I'm the kind of single that has no hope, no expectations, and reminds myself not to dream of finding love because it's just a setup for pain and humiliation like it has been for most of my life (except for those few years in my 20's when I actually got a lot of attention from women).

Next question! :rolleyes:
Lol next question please :D
 

garet82

Senior Member
Jan 20, 2011
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Im single with never be alone.
Every day my days are fulled with children at school n church.
Too much social activities i hv n in evening i hv my family gathering n sharing what they hv everyday.
Im single and iam happy :)
 

Daylilies

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Apr 11, 2017
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When my last serious relationship ended, I would have described myself as "brokenhearted and afraid to love again"; but as I was contemplating how to answer the poll, I realized that I have become a "happy single" who is not afraid to be single. It was awesome to realize how far I have come! Prayer and time really can heal. Thanks for posting this poll and helping me to realize this, Tinkerbell725! :)
 
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joefizz

Guest
I'm the single kind of single the kind of single where you are honestly single because you are simply single until you are no longer single so until I'm no longer single I'll just have to be single until I can finally no longer be single by having a single girl friend and in time have a single wedding to where we both will be as one having a single mind and a single common mission, to serve God with honesty and without shame steadfastly until we are single once more,hopefully in heaven,what a singularly great way to,live and die,and for a singularly great reward "Everlasting Life"!!!!!!