You need nothing else when your heart is open to love and your mind turned to God. May the good Lord bless you and keep you and bestow all the true riches of a bountiful life upon you.I do believe it is vital for the woman and the man to do what is necessary to make a family work if they are going to make one. A woman having a craft, trade or even a hobby that she can excel at and add meaningful value to the family should be an obligation. I have not known women in my encounters to seek to better themselves for the good of the family but rather for their own gains. I have known many women who's only desire is when they will be able to ditch the man and go shake their rompis on the dance floor. In fact, that is about all that I have known is maybe not even women but men too who are just out for themselves and I don't fit in with that thinking and I have not for a long time. Maybe it is where I live and maybe it is US or world wide, the Hollywood lust that has taken over everybody's spirit and their temptations that they give in to. Perhaps the people have been trained up by sex scenes and pornography.
Pornography is another thing that has stepped into relationships where it does not belong. Some women or the tv portrays it that they accept that, that is who the man is and porn is ok and it doesn't hurt anyone. That is far from true. It is a poison a serpent that infiltrates and burrows to destroy and sickens the minds of those who allow it in. Even promiscuous flirtations such as music videos that show half naked women twerking and.... bikini magazines even have the same harmful effects of pornography. It is so readily available to even children and nobody can search through the youtube home screen without seeing a half naked body or some seductive selfie on facebook.
Aside, I know there are those men and women who have not been deceived by such vial temptations of the enemy and reckless actions of sinful flesh. Then there are those that had to learn the hard way and those who don't care. Unfortunately for me, I have only known the dark side of the world until recently. I asked God to show me the Good in the world, I told him that I was tired of the bad and that if there was good to please reveal it to me and God answered in many ways. God is awesome! This started out as a search for opinions but is maybe turning into a quest for what is unknown to me... Godly people, those who live to seek out the Lord. I had to get myself right first and that meant giving up the old life and drawing close to God.
I know what it is to be emotionally abused and physically abused, cheated on, lied to, ripped off, deceived, I know what it feels to give everything and get nothing but hatred in return. I know the depths of pain and suffering and I leave that all behind. So what I seek now is Love, forgiveness, joy, laughter, smiles that mean something, and Christ first. No longer do I want to be effected by how someone is treating me but overcome with love.
I do not have the confidence to get through one day without Jesus let alone try to engage someone.
So I guess you pulled it out of me. But here comes the punchline.
After having everything above me and used as a weapon, a bigger truck than me, more money, older than me, more kids than me,... it was all used to defeat me and crush me. Now I know that it was not because of me but what she was dealing with inside of herself and had to feel she was higher and mightier it became a competition for her and for me just trying not to drown. I little tiny woman in a big enormous truck that made her look like a little child in comparison. does cry out and seeking attention by any means = complete sabotage of marriage.
Everybody should own a pickup truck and a four wheel drive at that, man and woman both. But mine has to be bigger! LOL she can make all the money in the world, but she can spend it on me.
It really isn't about what a woman does but does she do it in LOVE.
I got nothing else, but there is so much more.