List of dating mistakes that should be avoided by the Christian woman
(#4)NOT HAVING AN ACTIVE ONLINE PRESENCE
Like I have said earlier, this is the age of the internet and having an active presence online whether it’s on face book, twitter, Christian chat sites or Christian blogs will enable you to meet people you may not have met otherwise. So many Christian couples have met online and you can also meet yours there as well. When I recommend being active online, some girls will be like “its immodest, I can’t get married online”. May I just explain that you are not getting married online, you are only meeting online, you will still get to meet his family and he will still get to meet your family, the role of the internet is just for you to meet, chat for a while, then may be exchange phone numbers.
Also, it is not immodest, prostituted or sinful for you to use social media. If you are on Christian groups or pages on these social networks and chat networks try to go there often, at least once a week to check your mail and the progress there. You do not want a situation where you never get to open the email your true love sent you. There is this story where a man approached a woman on a Christian page on face book to ask her out. He sent her a face book message but she didn’t even open it, so after a few months with her not opening the message, the man viewed her face book profile and saw that she has a younger sister listed as one of her family members, so he chose to view her sisters profile and he discovered that not only did the sisters resemble each other in looks they both appear to have strong faith. So he decided to send a message to the younger sister, but unlike the older sister, she replied on time. They became a couple and they got married after a year of dating.
The older sister attended the wedding and even up till then she hadn’t opened the message her now brother in law sent to her. She is still single up till now not realizing that she was her younger sister husbands’ first choice.
The moral here is for you not only to be registered online but to be active on line and please check your mail, so many women I have sent emails to on Facebook and Twitter, but they didn’t even open the message.