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[TD="class: postcell"]Hi,
I'm new here. I'm a Christian single. Lately, I've been struggling with how to express sexual desires in a healthy way. I know adultery is wrong and lusting is wrong, but I also don't believe sexual desire only starts the moment people say "I do." Otherwise people wouldn't get married. It stands to reason that, if God made us with sexual desires, He had to make a healthy way for both single and married people to express them. However, I don't know what that way is. Just ignoring them and hoping they'll go away doesn't do anything but make sure they come back later, sometimes stronger than before. Yet, focusing too much on them can lead to lust. There has to be some middle-ground. I know answers are going to differ, but any thoughts?
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[TD="class: postcell"]Hi,
I'm new here. I'm a Christian single. Lately, I've been struggling with how to express sexual desires in a healthy way. I know adultery is wrong and lusting is wrong, but I also don't believe sexual desire only starts the moment people say "I do." Otherwise people wouldn't get married. It stands to reason that, if God made us with sexual desires, He had to make a healthy way for both single and married people to express them. However, I don't know what that way is. Just ignoring them and hoping they'll go away doesn't do anything but make sure they come back later, sometimes stronger than before. Yet, focusing too much on them can lead to lust. There has to be some middle-ground. I know answers are going to differ, but any thoughts?
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