Yes, another thread I will probably deeply regret. I can almost feel it LOL. Anyway, i thought Id give it a whirl.
The main reason women arent INITIALLY attracted to a guy is because they are: boring / average / predictable / uninteresting / creepy(?), ...you get the point.
I wanted to come up with some ways for a guy to make themselves a bit more interesting and attractive to women. Here's what I came up with. I dont guarantee any of it, of course. Take it for what its worth.
Ok, so this list is not for everybody and its comical on certain levels but serious on others. I hope i dont offend anyone here...
1) Join a rock band. No, not the chior! A rock band. If you have to ask why not the chior, you probably wont get much out of this thread. This is NOT for the groupies. Its to make you have groupies so other women will find you attractive. Its complicated to explain, but trust me it, its effective.
2) Go extreme with the hair. Either shave it all off or grow it long and wavy. You might want to try one of those goatee beards (they always remind me of the old satanic characters in the old horror movies for some reason).
3) Ride a motorcycle. This is an easy 3 points up the attractiveness scale. Why? Because women dig guys who ride motorcycles (the exceptions I think are those women who had bad relationships with guys on motorcycles). I think its some kind of primordial thing going back to when manly-men rode horses.
4) Learn how to make a woman laugh. Yes, this is actually THE NUMBER ONE way to a woman's heart if you ask me. Unfortunately its also the one that is hardest to figure out. You have to find the fine line between being witty-and-funny, and wierd-and-embarrassing. Dont ask me, I have no clue where to start!
5) Learn how to dress well. Yes women can instantly tell when a man knows how to dress himself. Its not about buying expensive clothes. Its more about style and coordination. A guy can look just as good in the right pair of jeans and a t-shirt as he would in a dress shirt and slacks.
6) Healthy appearance. You know that youthful glow you get after a good workout? Not from sweat, from your skin being flush with plenty of rich, oxygenated red blood cells. That gives the appearance of health and virility and is something women will take note of. The best way to maintain this is through regular, vigorous exercise. Eating right helps a lot too. And getting enough sleep!
7) Know how to talk to a woman. Be easygoing. Dont sound like you are nervous or worried. Sound like you are nonchalant and relaxed. A woman can tell if you are nervous or anxious and its never a good thing. Ever notice how the first thing women say is that they want a man with 'confidence'? Exactly.
The main reason women arent INITIALLY attracted to a guy is because they are: boring / average / predictable / uninteresting / creepy(?), ...you get the point.
I wanted to come up with some ways for a guy to make themselves a bit more interesting and attractive to women. Here's what I came up with. I dont guarantee any of it, of course. Take it for what its worth.
Ok, so this list is not for everybody and its comical on certain levels but serious on others. I hope i dont offend anyone here...
1) Join a rock band. No, not the chior! A rock band. If you have to ask why not the chior, you probably wont get much out of this thread. This is NOT for the groupies. Its to make you have groupies so other women will find you attractive. Its complicated to explain, but trust me it, its effective.
2) Go extreme with the hair. Either shave it all off or grow it long and wavy. You might want to try one of those goatee beards (they always remind me of the old satanic characters in the old horror movies for some reason).
3) Ride a motorcycle. This is an easy 3 points up the attractiveness scale. Why? Because women dig guys who ride motorcycles (the exceptions I think are those women who had bad relationships with guys on motorcycles). I think its some kind of primordial thing going back to when manly-men rode horses.
4) Learn how to make a woman laugh. Yes, this is actually THE NUMBER ONE way to a woman's heart if you ask me. Unfortunately its also the one that is hardest to figure out. You have to find the fine line between being witty-and-funny, and wierd-and-embarrassing. Dont ask me, I have no clue where to start!
5) Learn how to dress well. Yes women can instantly tell when a man knows how to dress himself. Its not about buying expensive clothes. Its more about style and coordination. A guy can look just as good in the right pair of jeans and a t-shirt as he would in a dress shirt and slacks.
6) Healthy appearance. You know that youthful glow you get after a good workout? Not from sweat, from your skin being flush with plenty of rich, oxygenated red blood cells. That gives the appearance of health and virility and is something women will take note of. The best way to maintain this is through regular, vigorous exercise. Eating right helps a lot too. And getting enough sleep!
7) Know how to talk to a woman. Be easygoing. Dont sound like you are nervous or worried. Sound like you are nonchalant and relaxed. A woman can tell if you are nervous or anxious and its never a good thing. Ever notice how the first thing women say is that they want a man with 'confidence'? Exactly.
Last edited:
