Where to take a church girl out on a date to
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Yikes. You are a red flag. You should go where she would want to go- you're treating her, not yourself. I always tell my daughter it's a red flag when a guy's root focus is Himself. That she can tell by his compliments- if he always says you're pretty- he's thinking of how you look to him. But if he says things like you're smart, you're fun, you're good at certain things- then he cares about who you are as a person. A relationship based on looks don't last, because looks don't last.
Boys look for someone to take care of them, men look for someone to take care of.
Boys live off of others, men build homes.
Boys shack up, men get married.
Boys won't even take care of their own children, men will take care of their own and someone else's as if they were his own.
Gentlemen look to the good of their lady over the good of themselves. I don't see evidence of a gentleman in what I read. If you don't have patience for a movie, how will you have the patience to be a husband and father?
-just sayin
Boys look for someone to take care of them, men look for someone to take care of.
Boys live off of others, men build homes.
Boys shack up, men get married.
Boys won't even take care of their own children, men will take care of their own and someone else's as if they were his own.
Gentlemen look to the good of their lady over the good of themselves. I don't see evidence of a gentleman in what I read. If you don't have patience for a movie, how will you have the patience to be a husband and father?
-just sayin
OneFaith,
Take it easy on him. If he doesn't know her well, he may not know what things she likes. He may want to go to the concert anyway, and is thinking of taking her. Why would he schedule a date that he knows he won't enjoy. It's better to choose something they both like.
I think getting to know the other person should be the priority, rather than the fun activity.
Take it easy on him. If he doesn't know her well, he may not know what things she likes. He may want to go to the concert anyway, and is thinking of taking her. Why would he schedule a date that he knows he won't enjoy. It's better to choose something they both like.
I think getting to know the other person should be the priority, rather than the fun activity.
Being too romantic on a first date could show a lack of consideration and love. If he found out everything she liked and set up a first date to play her heart strings, and she fell in love with him by the end of the first date, but he decided by the end of the first date that they weren't compatible and that he would move on to someone else, he might break her heart. He should focus on their getting to know each other a little bit, IMO, or on breaking the ice if that is a big issue. A light entertaining activity might break the ice.