My cousin found her husband on eharmony.com and you can try that. But really, as a counselor of family and relationship, I do think that desperation is a big turn off since it is a sign of unhealthy emotion. As a Christian, the big source of happiness comes from your close relationship with Jesus. If you have to find the one to be happy, then it is not right at the very beginning, you will attract someone else that is not right in God's sight and it will not last long without God in the center. You don't have to expect the same manner for people in the dating sites as it is in real life because time is precious and you have to be selective. My cousin gave me a really good advice, that is to complete your profile as detail as possible on aspects of what you want in a marriage and what you expect from the potential partner. Then you will attract mostly someone who is right. It has to be someone who read your profile carefully and find the merits of you to start with the talking. You don't talk about your merits on your own, but show yourself through your insight and wise words. Later on you can be known through your family or friends through social media when you get to trust each other. If your prayer is to God's please and not against His will, you will surely get what you want. I had witnessed my cousin found her godly husband and have a happy godly life with her kid from her first marriage.