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Fromdomlove

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Hello everyone. No more dating site. For me doesnt work out.. And now what? Should i wear a t- shirt with Bible' words and to walk in the street? Should i visit churches for " listening the word" ?? Should i preach a lot to non- believers girls? Or should i calm down and accept that maybe its not Gods will? I hace changed a lot..this topic didnt concered me years ago, but nowdays has been toó overwhelming.
 
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Fromdomlove said:
Hello everyone.
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Hey, hello again!

No more dating site.
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Good.

For me doesnt work out..
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No surprises there.

And now what? Should i wear a t- shirt with Bible' words and to walk in the street?
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Where are you going? No more buses?

Should i visit churches for " listening the word" ??
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Yes, of course, never stop doing that :)

Should i preach a lot to non- believers girls?
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A lot? What is a lot? What about guys? They need to hear the Word also!

Or should i calm down and accept that maybe its not Gods will?
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Yes, this seems the most sensible thing.
 
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Tofino

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Is this your first rodeo? That is to say have you been married? If not, have you been in many relationships?
 
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sojames

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you pray and wait until the Lady come across your Past and the Holy spirit tells u that is your wife
 
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My advice would be forget about the girls, and join the gym. They always seem to appear out of nowhere when I feel good about myself. Sounds like you are lacking in self-confidence to just be yourself.
 
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This place could be a very good Christian dating site once people get to know you better. Start posting more frequently on various topics and let others see who you really are inside. You never know when someone may take a nibble. Right now you are still an unknown entity as far as romance is concerned. This could easily change.
 
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Fromdomlove: Remember in another thread when you mentioned that guys just are not single at your age, that it just isn't done? Remember how I mentioned that was probably a regional culture thing, because where I live it's no big deal for a guy to be single?

Same thing here. You live in a different culture than just about everybody else here, so we can't really advise you on this because we don't know the environment in which you're operating. If we googled up your country and read all about it online we still would have no place advising you because we still wouldn't really know the cultural atmosphere there.

I recommend asking advice from someone closer at hand. A grandparent, a pastor, somebody who knows your culture and has seen a lot of life.
 
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Fromdomlove said:
Hello everyone. No more dating site. For me doesnt work out.. And now what? Should i wear a t- shirt with Bible' words and to walk in the street? Should i visit churches for " listening the word" ?? Should i preach a lot to non- believers girls? Or should i calm down and accept that maybe its not Gods will? I hace changed a lot..this topic didnt concered me years ago, but nowdays has been toó overwhelming.
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Yes, do that! :rolleyes: And leave the poor girls alone...
 
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Fromdomlove

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Thanks. I will be vising churches...why were you not surprise about me not being sucessful un datint site?
 
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Fromdomlove

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I want to start now.
 
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Fromdomlove

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:) :) :) but it looks like they prefer to be alone.
 
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Fromdomlove said:
Thanks. I will be vising churches...why were you not surprise about me not being sucessful un datint site?
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I'm very surprised. Finding a perfect Christian woman is one thing, finding a sweet lovable Christian woman is another thing altogether. You can tell a lot about a person just by observing how they act around other people. You don't have to come right out front and start asking if she is a Christian or not. The longer you are in a relationship the more you will eventually find out. The most important things that you look for in a woman should be readily evident within a short period of time. Some woman are looking for affectionate lovable Christian men. Don't worry, you'll be fine.
 
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Fromdomlove said:
I want to start now.
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Fromdomlove said:
:) :) :) but it looks like they prefer to be alone.
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Here's a few things you might not know about women which might help you understand the situation better...

- Women want a man they can look up to, someone they can feel confident in. Not someone who seems needy, as in someone who needs a girlfriend..

- Telling a woman who isn't already a friend that she is beautiful is probably going to make her feel uncomfortable. This is not the same thing as telling a woman she looks beautiful because she's wearing a stunning new dress or something..

- Women want a guy who they feel comfortable with, who is nice to talk to and FUN to hang around with. Someone who isn't fixated on making her his girfriend, or fixated on her beauty.

- Women like a guy who can cook and clean. Learn to love cooking and cleaning and you will be bachelor of the year! :rolleyes:

 
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Magenta

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Fromdomlove said:
Thanks. I will be vising churches...why were you not surprise about me not being sucessful un datint site?
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The success rate of dating sites is probably very highly over rated, especially from a Christian perspective. What I said was not against you, but the culture such sites exist within.
 
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Magenta said:
Hey, hello again!


Good.


No surprises there.


Where are you going? No more buses?


Yes, of course, never stop doing that :)


A lot? What is a lot? What about guys? They need to hear the Word also!


Yes, this seems the most sensible thing.
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A lot? What is a lot? What about guys? They need to hear the Word also! this cracked me up XD guys lives matter spread the word
 
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CaptainGoat

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To Fromdomlove. Be assured that Jesus has a plan for you and one day you may well find the right person to be your wife. Relax and enjoy everyday and let God take care of things.
 
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Fromdomlove

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My whole family...the church..in my job...unknown people...all of them want that i get marry.
 
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Fromdomlove

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Well. .well...well...i dont know...but women are not that easy as you say.
 
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Hand_Of_God

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Instead of telling the woman that she looks beautiful, try telling her that you look beautiful.
 
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Chen-Chen

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What's rodeo
 
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