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    Quote Originally Posted by notworthy901 View Post
    I think there is some truth to what your saying. Don't go around and show off your 6 pack and be overtly concerned about being "Alpha." Which is kind of silly. But I think there was a little truth to what he was saying too. Women may or may not be aware of what makes them attracted to a man, like a man is. But there are some factors involved that can influence whether a woman is attractive to a man. Evolutionary psychology is pretty much theoretical and to be taken with a grain of salt in many instanced. But, on the other hand it has a lot of useful data and information. Such as the fact that women bear children and seek out men that have the means to help their future family survive. The more of an ability a man has to provide, the more appealing he will be to the woman. Which is why rich celebrities tend to have many women throwing theirselves at them at their concerts or when they go to the club or whatever. On the other hand, many women are not comepletely hypnotized by shallow traits like how much money a man has and basically see it as a plus. Not necessarily a requirement. They may be seeking a man with great moral character and see the money they have as just icing on the cake. I guess all women are just individuals and they all pick men differently.


    I guess Im coming at it from a Christian point of view. My hubby lost his job when his company moved out of the country when we began dating. He went for a year without finding a job. We took a lot of walks in just about every park near us. We ate off the dollar menu. He wasn't able to wine and dine me. And he lived over an hour away from me,so there were times he couldn't afford to visit {I had no licence} And I never once thought of leaving him. Why? It wasn't his alpha qualities,it was that I knew he was a hard worker,I knew he was a good person with a big heart,that he was a gentleman not because he strutted around like a peacock. He use to thank me for sticking with him during the hard times. I said "thats what you do when you love someone" Base a relationship on shallow things and you get what you deserve.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaylagrl View Post
    I guess Im coming at it from a Christian point of view. My hubby lost his job when his company moved out of the country when we began dating. He went for a year without finding a job. We took a lot of walks in just about every park near us. We ate off the dollar menu. He wasn't able to wine and dine me. And he lived over an hour away from me,so there were times he couldn't afford to visit {I had no licence} And I never once thought of leaving him. Why? It wasn't his alpha qualities,it was that I knew he was a hard worker,I knew he was a good person with a big heart,that he was a gentleman not because he strutted around like a peacock. He use to thank me for sticking with him during the hard times. I said "thats what you do when you love someone" Base a relationship on shallow things and you get what you deserve.
    That's noble and admirable of you. Thing is these days many people are shallow and don't put too much emphasis on love when they choose who to be with. Or they aren't loving people for the right reasons. They may become infatuated which is ok. But that is not real love. The bible tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. What did Christ do for the church? He died for the church. The bible doesn't specifically say for women to love their husbands it does say to repsect them, but that goes without saying. What man does not want their wife to love them too? Not too many. So I think that same verse applies to the ladies also, because if you wont die for someone you may love them a little bit. But ask yourself. Do you love them enough to marry them if you wont even die for them? to me that is the question someone needs to ask theirself before they choose to marry a person. Now, money can disappear, looks fade, and anything can happen. A mans wife can get burnt up in a fire. A man can go to prison and lose all his money. So if you love someone for how much money they have, or what they look like, then its for the wrong reasons. What are you going to do when they lose their money? What are you going to do when your wife gets elderly? Divorce? So its important that true love is in the equation, and I can tell you really loved your husband because you stuck with him thru his problems which is good. And I think more men and women need to have that attitude. Especially in America where people are insecure, and think they need a trophy wife or a famous baller. So they sacrifice true love for a fake worldly type of love, instead of the type of love that the bible tells us to have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by notworthy901 View Post
    That's noble and admirable of you. Thing is these days many people are shallow and don't put too much emphasis on love when they choose who to be with. Or they aren't loving people for the right reasons. They may become infatuated which is ok. But that is not real love. The bible tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. What did Christ do for the church? He died for the church. The bible doesn't specifically say for women to love their husbands it does say to repsect them, but that goes without saying. What man does not want their wife to love them too? Not too many. So I think that same verse applies to the ladies also, because if you wont die for someone you may love them a little bit. But ask yourself. Do you love them enough to marry them if you wont even die for them? to me that is the question someone needs to ask theirself before they choose to marry a person. Now, money can disappear, looks fade, and anything can happen. A mans wife can get burnt up in a fire. A man can go to prison and lose all his money. So if you love someone for how much money they have, or what they look like, then its for the wrong reasons. What are you going to do when they lose their money? What are you going to do when your wife gets elderly? Divorce? So its important that true love is in the equation, and I can tell you really loved your husband because you stuck with him thru his problems which is good. And I think more men and women need to have that attitude. Especially in America where people are insecure, and think they need a trophy wife or a famous baller. So they sacrifice true love for a fake worldly type of love, instead of the type of love that the bible tells us to have.

    Well I wouldn't call myself noble,thats for sure.But I did learn the difference between fools gold and the real thing very quickly. I knew I had real gold and he's been a blessing to me. I just hope I can be a blessing in return. I learned what a real man was and it wasn't what most of society says it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaylagrl View Post
    Well I wouldn't call myself noble,thats for sure.But I did learn the difference between fools gold and the real thing very quickly. I knew I had real gold and he's been a blessing to me. I just hope I can be a blessing in return. I learned what a real man was and it wasn't what most of society says it is.
    For some reason a song my sister used to listen to incessantly keeps playing through my head.

    "What a man / What a man / What a man / What a mighty good man"

    We... won't go into the verses. We'll just stick with the chorus on this one. >.>
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    For some reason a song my sister used to listen to incessantly keeps playing through my head.

    "What a man / What a man / What a man / What a mighty good man"

    We... won't go into the verses. We'll just stick with the chorus on this one. >.>

    Yes, I know that song and its fitting! A good man/woman is hard to find,but they are out there.But I think we look for all the wrong things in all the wrong places. We sabotage ourselves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by notworthy901 View Post
    Thanks for the evolutionary psychology lesson. I finally read it. I thought this was a bunch of spiritual mumbo jumbo but I'm going to go back and read all the posts I skipped over. I thought I was going to get a bible lesson, which wasn't what I was looking for, but this is some smart stuff.
    This is the 101 version. There's quite a science about it. You can do things to adjust your pheromones, spot a narcissist and up your alpha status.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hungry View Post
    This is the 101 version. There's quite a science about it. You can do things to adjust your pheromones, spot a narcissist and up your alpha status.
    Is there a way to DOWN my alpha status? I like working in the background. Ever since God told me to be a preacher I'm in the spotlight way too much for my comfort.

    I'll keep my pheromones where they are though, thank you. And I can spot a narcissist on my own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Is there a way to DOWN my alpha status? I like working in the background. Ever since God told me to be a preacher I'm in the spotlight way too much for my comfort.

    I'll keep my pheromones where they are though, thank you. And I can spot a narcissist on my own.
    Alpha status is mostly an attitude based on confidence. I'm sure you know that but dressing more modestly, talking less and smiling less is a decent start to flying under the radar. Just curious, how do you spot the narcissists?

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    I'll have to think about this for a bit.
    If you're truly interested in a lady, the risk of rejection is worth taking.
    There's no absolute answer for what every woman will respond to, but be your genuine, sincere self, and praying for you to find your love.
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    Second chance:

    I want him to approach me formally and be upfront. Oh, before I forget, he should come out from the book.

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    @notworthy901. First of all, i must say i liked your post and i found it very interesting. In my own perspective, most ladies like to follow the norm, that is, the guy takes the lead and then we follow. It is rare to see ladies make the first move. Not all ladies want to come off as easy and desperate. If you like a girl why not make the first move to call her? Why not do the chasing and pursuing? Ladies like to measure the way they are being pursued in relation with the depth of feelings a guy has for them. It's more like..."If you want me, you should come for me". Only in rare cases do ladies break the norm and do the texting, calling, and chasing and that is if she really really likes you.
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    Hello, Magenta. I am 42 years old. I mistyped 1974 into 1914, and I cannot change it anymore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bingbing View Post
    Hello, Magenta. I am 42 years old. I mistyped 1974 into 1914, and I cannot change it anymore.
    *** I was going to say you look very healthy and vibrant for 99...
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    Quote Originally Posted by bingbing View Post
    Hello, Magenta. I am 42 years old. I mistyped 1974 into 1914, and I cannot change it anymore.
    Some kind person has fixed it for you Yay!
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    Quote Originally Posted by notworthy901 View Post
    I realize women are complicated beings. Men are easy. If they like you, and your a woman all you have to do is point at them. Then proceed to tell them you like them. Lets go out to dinner. You can fill my belly, and if you act like a good little man we can be together. If your a bad little man, then I just wont answer your calls anymore. If you don't believe me try it it works,


    On the other hand women are like robotic creatures from Venus. You have to press all the correct buttons or they will toss you to the side. Do or say the wrong thing, they will eject you like a broken vhs tape. They will reject you like your a bad shady car salesman trying to sell them a junk car. You may think your car is reliable and sturdy transportation, but they don't like it because the window tint is not quite as dark as they want it to be.

    Ill give an example. In the other thread I said I gave a woman my number. A woman told me I did the wrong thing and that would not resonate well with her. Maybe not all women are like that but many are apparently. Me in my God given male logical mind thought that who cares who calls who. As long as we go out on a date. Apparently by giving her my number instead, I was pressing the wrong button on her robotic woman mind and she decided to eject me like a broken vhs tape.

    So. Ladies. I'm asking you to help us guys out. How would you prefer to be approached. What are the correct buttons to press to control u like robots and get the desired results from the woman we want to talk to. ill wait. This is a funny thread. Or maybe not. I'm joking a little bit. But on a serious note. How do you ladies prefer a man to approach you.
    You wrote "what are the correct buttons to push to control you like robots?"

    That's the problem, right there, Sparky. You can't control women. We're uncontrollable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    You wrote "what are the correct buttons to push to control you like robots?"

    That's the problem, right there, Sparky. You can't control women. We're uncontrollable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Galatea View Post
    You wrote "what are the correct buttons to push to control you like robots?"

    That's the problem, right there, Sparky. You can't control women. We're uncontrollable.

    I love that you called him sparky!! Awesome!
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    Find a supreme purpose to live and die for.
    Enlist in the army of the Kingdom of God and fight for Him
    Offer your knees to pray for a hurting and needing world
    and I assure you from the deep of my heart
    that a woman of God will want to be included
    as your helper and wife
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    Hate to argue AgnusDei, but Paul might disagree with you on that one.
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