all my past relationships ended badly as in "she cheated or whatnot" but that is not why I'm writing message....
I've heard girls say they want a man with a job and apartment ...before they'll date them
does that mean there's a price tag on love?
okay so I have been thru hardship and have to be on ssi and stuff and lack a job and my own place.... because I'm bipolar...
is being disabled a turn-off
I truly believe that if you are weak in one area of your life... you are stronger than most others in other aspects of your life
we all have strengths and weakness
is there a difference between a "normal" person's problems and a disabled person's problems
should I be treated differently than the rest of society?
honestly do ladies turn the other way when they see disabled people who are noticeably disabled?
I speak from a man's persective for I am a man who has struggled all his life
yet... does anyone actually believe in their heart that love is free and would date anyone?
okay I understand this is hard for people who need "security" but how does a disabled or anyone for that matter feel when they have to try twice as hard to get into a relationship with someone they like just because they had to start at the bottom in life because of extenuating circumstances...and yet even though are kind generious...giving...and willing to make that person they truly like happy...they won't get a chance from the person they like because that person wants more than a date?
okay....maybe there are some people who are not so judgemental....but why must their be a condition on love?
my idea of a true relationship is a relation full of trust...respect...honesty...and love...especially God...but truly there should be a balance in the relationship that the man and woman both sincerely love each other
notice I didn't mention money....for me the date...the restaurant....the gifts....
that's a given...anyone who gives their heart to someone naturally wants to impress their significant other and shower them with love
now I don't know everything about relationship...please resond to this message