I believe if people date, it should be marriage focused. If one person is dating non-seriously just for the enjoyment of dating (or to find a fornication partner) and the other person is looking for a spouse, it is not fair for the person looking for a spouse. Let's say two people in their 20's are dating. The man doesn't care if he gets married. The woman wants a husband. He dates her for a couple of years. He's taking time away from her chance to get married while she is still young and fertile. If he doesn't let on regarding his lack of intentions, he's not treating her right. If she keeps dating him after figuring out he doesn't want to get married (ever, or isn't clear on it), it may be a case of her being unwise.
So do you think it is appropriate for a single man or woman to say, on a first date, that he or she is only interested in dating to find a marriage partner? Is that appropriate second or third date talk?
On the other hand, I suspect a lot of dates these days aren't really cast as 'dates', but more like two people hanging out and drinking coffee. The invitation may be more along the lines of "Do you want to hang out some time?" as opposed to, "I'd like to take you out." This may make it seem a bit presumptuous for someone to throw out the topic of marriage.
What do you think about this?
So do you think it is appropriate for a single man or woman to say, on a first date, that he or she is only interested in dating to find a marriage partner? Is that appropriate second or third date talk?
On the other hand, I suspect a lot of dates these days aren't really cast as 'dates', but more like two people hanging out and drinking coffee. The invitation may be more along the lines of "Do you want to hang out some time?" as opposed to, "I'd like to take you out." This may make it seem a bit presumptuous for someone to throw out the topic of marriage.
What do you think about this?