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Hey everyone, I kind of was looking for a place like this to talk to somewhat like-minded people about my own struggles in my walk with Christ. This has been a subject that has been on my mind a lot recently as I have been thinking about the many things I am currently missing out on and how it has affected my life life both negatively and positively.
Now, to make sure you understand, when I say that I have been thinking about the things I am missing out on I don not mean the sex side of things. I am a very family oriented person and I deeply long for a partner to care for as well as the longing to be a father. At times it feels like I have missed out on a lot of chances to have these things because my commitment to this choice limits me when it comes to finding that certain someone. Because of past experiences I have slowly drawn myself inward and have become less active in attempts to get to know people in a romantic way. I am constantly filled with a hopelessness of never being able to find some one that is a virgin like me or respects and understands me enough to not pressure me in that choice, especially in this day and age. It has gotten to the point where I have not been in a relationship in over 5 years.
I welcome anyone to join in and share their views on this, male or female.
Now, to make sure you understand, when I say that I have been thinking about the things I am missing out on I don not mean the sex side of things. I am a very family oriented person and I deeply long for a partner to care for as well as the longing to be a father. At times it feels like I have missed out on a lot of chances to have these things because my commitment to this choice limits me when it comes to finding that certain someone. Because of past experiences I have slowly drawn myself inward and have become less active in attempts to get to know people in a romantic way. I am constantly filled with a hopelessness of never being able to find some one that is a virgin like me or respects and understands me enough to not pressure me in that choice, especially in this day and age. It has gotten to the point where I have not been in a relationship in over 5 years.
I welcome anyone to join in and share their views on this, male or female.