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Well then I guess you have a choice: Are you going to keep pining after a woman who wants nothing to do with you or are you going to accept the fact that you may be mistaken in your assumption that she's your soul mate (I'll let someone else give you the details about how that's a completely pagan concept) and decide to move on without her?
You have to find a way to interact with her on some level to get her attention, otherwise don't waste any more time. I would not have wasted years waiting for a woman to smile at me or give me a wink. In fact, I would not have wasted months or even weeks. You're going to have to make some kind of move to let her know that you exist.
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I only have one answer
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Ask God if you might be obsessed with her. I had that problem a lot when I was younger. I couldn't think of anything but the target of my affections. I would drive by her house. I would always be thinking about her. I would always be talking to her in my head.
I think it was because I had such a terrible childhood and knew nothing of healthy love from my mother.
A "soul mate" will reciprocate the feelings of being a soul mate. Unless God works a miracle, don't consider her to be God's best for you.
Ask God to deliver you from these feelings of obsession and bring some people into your life who will fill the emptiness you feel and are trying to fill on your own with thoughts of her.
These thoughts are rewarding that is why you continue with them. You can't just stop them. You need to replace them with healthy thoughts and feelings.
Glorious Heavenly Father, fill this man's need with your love grace and mercy. Bring people into his life to help him grow out of this possible obsession with someone else. Indeed Lord, bring the right person into his life and grant him a great marriage for your glory and honor. In Jesus' name, amen.
I think it was because I had such a terrible childhood and knew nothing of healthy love from my mother.
A "soul mate" will reciprocate the feelings of being a soul mate. Unless God works a miracle, don't consider her to be God's best for you.
Ask God to deliver you from these feelings of obsession and bring some people into your life who will fill the emptiness you feel and are trying to fill on your own with thoughts of her.
These thoughts are rewarding that is why you continue with them. You can't just stop them. You need to replace them with healthy thoughts and feelings.
Glorious Heavenly Father, fill this man's need with your love grace and mercy. Bring people into his life to help him grow out of this possible obsession with someone else. Indeed Lord, bring the right person into his life and grant him a great marriage for your glory and honor. In Jesus' name, amen.
Not to be judgemental but that's coming on too strong. i understand you have deep feelings for her but that's better left to be expressed if you two were in a serious relationship. That may have left a bad impression on her unfortunately. But hopefully it works out for you whether you decide to continue to pursue it or move on.
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It will not come to that.
2 Corinthians 12:19-21[SUP]19 [/SUP]Again, think ye that we excuse ourselves unto you? we speak before God in Christ: but we do all things, dearly beloved, for your edifying. [SUP]20 [/SUP]For I fear, lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I would, and that I shall be found unto you such as ye would not: lest there be debates, envyings, wraths, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, swellings, tumults: [SUP]21 [/SUP]and lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed.
2 Corinthians 12:19-21[SUP]19 [/SUP]Again, think ye that we excuse ourselves unto you? we speak before God in Christ: but we do all things, dearly beloved, for your edifying. [SUP]20 [/SUP]For I fear, lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I would, and that I shall be found unto you such as ye would not: lest there be debates, envyings, wraths, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, swellings, tumults: [SUP]21 [/SUP]and lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed.
