An Abundance of Women Interested in Me

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ChristianGuru

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Just got done signing off from facebook. A woman whom I've known was messaging me. She called me sexy and wants a date asap, even asked me about what I think she should wear. A few months before that another woman struck, we went out for a date in late February. She has called me her future husband and wants a ring.

Tonight, out with friends, 2 girls with us, both hitting on me and fighting for my attention.

While it's often a guy asks how to get a woman interested, it's evident that this is certainly not my problem.

Now the main concern is navigating the mine field. Who stays and who goes?
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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well the one who stays should be someone you like, who you dont see future problems with. The weirdo who wants a ring just sounds like trouble, I wouldn't touch that!

Oh and congrats on being a persued man, i suppose.

Also you ever notice that Christian women out number Christian men like 5-1? Or is it just me?
 
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ChristianGuru

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
well the one who stays should be someone you like, who you dont see future problems with. The weirdo who wants a ring just sounds like trouble, I wouldn't touch that!

Oh and congrats on being a persued man, i suppose.

Also you ever notice that Christian women out number Christian men like 5-1? Or is it just me?
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I have noticed christian women outnumber christian men. I am very interested in the girl who's on the worship team. She was one of the girls with us for dinner tonight.
 
FloridaFisher

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Pick the one that makes you feel like you can talk to them or listen to them for days. The one who compliments your personality the best. She should be fairly strong in all of the places you're weak. It's a balance. You must notice both your weaknesses and strengths and figure out if you two could complete a life together.

Look for open communication, stability, honesty, respect, heart, happiness..

You can have fun with many women- even date or marry them, but it's the girl who will stick it out through the thick and thin that matters. That's the keeper. The gold. What it's all about period.

I feel ya, bruh.. When it rains it pours..

May the best gal win.

Good luck..
 
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swizzlesticka

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If you really need help picking one, you probably shouldn't date any of them. You don't sound ready. Analyze your heart. Are you just looking to date any girl, or are you looking for a relationship with a specific one. Don't just date a girl because she comes on to you and makes it easy, that would seem to be a clearly wrong motive in my mind. (No, I didn't call them easy. I'm just saying that if you feel compelled to date every girl that shows interest, then you probably aren't ready to pursue a relationship with any of these girls. It should be a single-minded decision.)
 
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Maddog

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FloridaFisher said:
Pick the one that makes you feel like you can talk to them or listen to them for days.
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I fear you may have narrowed it down a tad too far, to approximately 0. I don't know anyone who could listen to a woman 'for days'. Maybe a few minutes would be a better yard stick.
 
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penguingal

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Maddog said:
I fear you may have narrowed it down a tad too far, to approximately 0. I don't know anyone who could listen to a woman 'for days'. Maybe a few minutes would be a better yard stick.
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In that case it's gotta someone you can talk to and feel right, comfortable with.
 
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ChristianGuru

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swizzlesticka said:
If you really need help picking one, you probably shouldn't date any of them. You don't sound ready. Analyze your heart. Are you just looking to date any girl, or are you looking for a relationship with a specific one. Don't just date a girl because she comes on to you and makes it easy, that would seem to be a clearly wrong motive in my mind. (No, I didn't call them easy. I'm just saying that if you feel compelled to date every girl that shows interest, then you probably aren't ready to pursue a relationship with any of these girls. It should be a single-minded decision.)
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I don't really need help picking one. I can date any and all of them. I don't need to be ready.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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ChristianGuru said:
Just got done signing off from facebook. A woman whom I've known was messaging me. She called me sexy and wants a date asap, even asked me about what I think she should wear. A few months before that another woman struck, we went out for a date in late February. She has called me her future husband and wants a ring.

Tonight, out with friends, 2 girls with us, both hitting on me and fighting for my attention.

While it's often a guy asks how to get a woman interested, it's evident that this is certainly not my problem.

Now the main concern is navigating the mine field. Who stays and who goes?
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The woman who called you sexy and wants a date asap has gotta go, is she physically unable to pick out her own attire for your date?? She sounds desperate.

The two girls that were fighting for your attention. They gotta go to.

Hillary duff. She is the one you need to be with. Im listning to the lizzie maguire sound track as i type this, and im tellin you. I think you and her would be perfect together. Lizzie would never call you sexy, she wouldnt ask you what to wear either, and lets get real here, she wouldnt need to fight for your attention. Take your time and think about it. (not to much time though, lizzie is a busy woman)
 
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sportygirl

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ChristianGuru said:
I don't really need help picking one. I can date any and all of them. I don't need to be ready.
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You do need to be ready, or its not gonna be a relationship its going to be dating for the sake of dating. And if thats what you want then go for it, but someone is gonna get hurt. I learned from that myself, and its not that simple, if it was I would still be with my ex and probably in a very bad relationship and not even realize it.
 
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lightbliss

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For some strange reason, I feel as though, based on all of your posts, that you're bragging and obviously view this as a game.
 
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ChristianGuru said:
Just got done signing off from facebook. A woman whom I've known was messaging me. She called me sexy and wants a date asap, even asked me about what I think she should wear. A few months before that another woman struck, we went out for a date in late February. She has called me her future husband and wants a ring.

Tonight, out with friends, 2 girls with us, both hitting on me and fighting for my attention.

While it's often a guy asks how to get a woman interested, it's evident that this is certainly not my problem.

Now the main concern is navigating the mine field. Who stays and who goes?
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There’s no law that says you have to date ANYONE, is there?
 
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Matthew

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ChristianGuru said:
Now the main concern is navigating the mine field. Who stays and who goes?
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Interesting how no situation is apparently without problems. :rolleyes:

People talk about there being no good christian guys or girls or they talk about how to ask someone out or how to know if someone is interested etc.....and it goes on and on.

Now this latest question, the answer to this one and all of the above is pretty much the same, just live your life free of the obsessive 'need' to be with someone and when someone comes into your life or reaches out to you just decide if you can see potential for a serious attraction and if so then go on a date.....at the nights end arrange a second date or say 'hey it was fun but I think we should leave things here' and make a smile.....like this.....:)

Who stays and goes?, the ones you like stay the ones you don't go, but just be careful not to flirt with ego-mania, no-one likes the person who goes on about how they can't walk 10 feet without someone begging for a date. ;)
 
seoulsearch

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Matthew said:
Interesting how no situation is apparently without problems. :rolleyes:

People talk about there being no good christian guys or girls or they talk about how to ask someone out or how to know if someone is interested etc.....and it goes on and on.

Now this latest question, the answer to this one and all of the above is pretty much the same, just live your life free of the obsessive 'need' to be with someone and when someone comes into your life or reaches out to you just decide if you can see potential for a serious attraction and if so then go on a date.....at the nights end arrange a second date or say 'hey it was fun but I think we should leave things here' and make a smile.....like this.....:)

Who stays and goes?, the ones you like stay the ones you don't go, but just be careful not to flirt with ego-mania, no-one likes the person who goes on about how they can't walk 10 feet without someone begging for a date. ;)
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AMEN to that. I get tired of Matthew bragging about his never-ending run-ins with women who beg him for dates ALL the time!!!! :D
 
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Matthew

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seoulsearch said:
AMEN to that. I get tired of Matthew bragging about his never-ending run-ins with women who beg him for dates ALL the time!!!! :D
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Well it is my cross to bear I'm afraid, cannot help being so handsome but I don't go on about it so much...that's a bit of fib...you make me sound rather boastful....but you know that's not my way....after all, humility is vital. ;):)
 
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Maddog

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Matthew said:
Well it is my cross to bear I'm afraid, cannot help being so handsome but I don't go on about it so much...that's a bit of fib...you make me sound rather boastful....but you know that's not my way....after all, humility is vital. ;):)
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Now you're boasting about your humility!?
 
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Matthew

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Maddog said:
Now you're boasting about your humility!?
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No no no, I don't boast about anything!
Don't listen to that SeoulSearch person, she's a liar, she tells lies! ;)
 
seoulsearch

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Then whats the purpose of this thread?
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I personally vote that the title of ChristianGuru's next thread should be:

"An Abundance Of Posters Answering My Thread."

In it, he can then tell us exactly which posters are, and are not, deemed worthy of being able to produce acceptable replies according to his own standards, of course... to which, the rest of us can then beg him, "Oh please, PLEASE, ChristianGuru, PLEASE deem me worthy of responding to your thread!! (PLEASE!!)"

*Seoulsearch is imagining that she will be the first one that he will point out as being UNworthy...*

*Merrily skips along as she exits the thread, holding her unworthy head steady.*
 
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