Ok, Im starting a new thread on speed dating,
just because some one asked me for the questions.
Speed dating in a nut shell, is basically like playing 20 questions
either with or without a time limit. It may seem impossible, but its not.
First thing to remember, Speed dating should be used to build a connection,
see if that person is the one you want any kind of relationship with.
It does not put anything in stone. It's not binding, it's just getting to know
someone to see if theres any intrest in them.
Second Speed dating should be like an interrogation, or a job interview,
It should have a purpose. Keeping mind your the interrorgator/interviewer
and also the suspect of intrest/ interviewee.
So to make it work first you have to know your self,
1. What is important to you?
2. What do you believe?
3. What are you looking for in a relationship?
4. What are your intrests?
5. What are your priorities in life?
6. Who is important to you?
7. Where do you see your self in the long run?
8. What is the vision or purpose of your life?
9. Are you equally yolked?
10. What are the things you refuse to comprimise on?
11. What things can you or will you comprimise on and to what extent?
12. Are your choices and activites Christ honouring?
13. Are you ready to enter a relationship? and how ready are you?
14. What is the purpose of the relationship?
15. What is the vision you and the other person sharing in terms of a life time together?
See, If you love Jesus first, others second your self last, you get JOY, and your BIBLE is your
Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.
So First develope your relationship with Christ, and when it gets to be where it needs to be,
He will bring you a spouse if it's his will. Make sure your relationship is build on the whole Word of God,
not just picked and chosen verses, and when you study it, study it in context. don't just study your Bible,
Study every thing, it will help you become what God wants you to be.
The key to making speed dating work,
1. Find out if they are equally yolked. (saved or not)
2. (same faith) Church, doctrine,
3. Personal beliefs and political views.
When you get here, you should have a good idea, if you want them as a friend,
or if there is something worth persuing.
4. Common intrests and hobbies,
5. Relations with friends and family,
6. Personal view for your future as an individual,
7. Personal view for your future as a couple.
When you get here you should have a good idea as to weather or not you want to
be friends, or if you want to spend the rest of your life together.
If you come to the point you both agree you want to marry each other, than
all you gotta do is determine how much you want to spend really getting to know them,
It takes time to really get to know people, but if the spirit attracts you, then you have nothing to loose.
The rest is really getting to know their body language, their past life, and finding out things they
may not share with any one else. seeing how they are like in public, around others.
it's basically investigating their claims and statements.
Thats why if you get a chance to meet someone in person, its more advisable than dating online.
just because some one asked me for the questions.
Speed dating in a nut shell, is basically like playing 20 questions
either with or without a time limit. It may seem impossible, but its not.
First thing to remember, Speed dating should be used to build a connection,
see if that person is the one you want any kind of relationship with.
It does not put anything in stone. It's not binding, it's just getting to know
someone to see if theres any intrest in them.
Second Speed dating should be like an interrogation, or a job interview,
It should have a purpose. Keeping mind your the interrorgator/interviewer
and also the suspect of intrest/ interviewee.
So to make it work first you have to know your self,
1. What is important to you?
2. What do you believe?
3. What are you looking for in a relationship?
4. What are your intrests?
5. What are your priorities in life?
6. Who is important to you?
7. Where do you see your self in the long run?
8. What is the vision or purpose of your life?
9. Are you equally yolked?
10. What are the things you refuse to comprimise on?
11. What things can you or will you comprimise on and to what extent?
12. Are your choices and activites Christ honouring?
13. Are you ready to enter a relationship? and how ready are you?
14. What is the purpose of the relationship?
15. What is the vision you and the other person sharing in terms of a life time together?
See, If you love Jesus first, others second your self last, you get JOY, and your BIBLE is your
Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.
So First develope your relationship with Christ, and when it gets to be where it needs to be,
He will bring you a spouse if it's his will. Make sure your relationship is build on the whole Word of God,
not just picked and chosen verses, and when you study it, study it in context. don't just study your Bible,
Study every thing, it will help you become what God wants you to be.
The key to making speed dating work,
1. Find out if they are equally yolked. (saved or not)
2. (same faith) Church, doctrine,
3. Personal beliefs and political views.
When you get here, you should have a good idea, if you want them as a friend,
or if there is something worth persuing.
4. Common intrests and hobbies,
5. Relations with friends and family,
6. Personal view for your future as an individual,
7. Personal view for your future as a couple.
When you get here you should have a good idea as to weather or not you want to
be friends, or if you want to spend the rest of your life together.
If you come to the point you both agree you want to marry each other, than
all you gotta do is determine how much you want to spend really getting to know them,
It takes time to really get to know people, but if the spirit attracts you, then you have nothing to loose.
The rest is really getting to know their body language, their past life, and finding out things they
may not share with any one else. seeing how they are like in public, around others.
it's basically investigating their claims and statements.
Thats why if you get a chance to meet someone in person, its more advisable than dating online.
