Salutations! There are a few good ladies that would make great friends for you. Cinder and seoulsearch are two of them. There are others but my brain just went AWOL so I can't think of their names right now... pay attention to which people say in their Forum posts and you'll find some good friends here.
Either I've just been complimented.... or Lynx is mentally stalking me and seoulsearch. But since I've been volunteered, guess I have to be friendly now.
Colie, you're welcome to drop me a PM or even just a Visitor's Message anytime.
However, I must warn you in advance that of the two of us, Cinder is the saner, more sensible, well-cultured, and definitely more polite one of the two of us.
If you're looking for wisdom and good advice, she's the one you'll want to go to.
Me? I already shot Lynx a reply with my reaction to him passing me off in the forums. I can't type it here because it would probably get me banned.
If you're looking for an answer and a mindset that usually goes against the grain, then I am definitely your girl.