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NoNameMcgee

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ladies dont get too hasty
a single file line is ideal

i understand your excitement but one at a time please


applications below
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hahaha sorrrry bluueeee. i know its not a dating site
ill take my buisness to myspace or w.e

lol dooont scooold me (jp ladies sorry to disappoint... just teasin blue)








on a more serious note
to those of us who ARE single men and women

do you plan on staying single?
waitin for God to reveal his-will on the matter?

have things you LOOK for and standards that gotta be met


how do you look at dating?


to be honest i started early

from 12 to 17 i was intimate with a girlfriend ( 1 at a time but not just 1 all 5 years)

then i had to break up with a girl i loved
my heart hurt

so i just played the field a little for a-cpl years as a single man

and became celebate about 7 years ago with 2 ... speed bumbs

now to avoid speed bumbs
ive become much less willing to entertain the idea of courting

im scared id lose to temptaion
so i flee the whole situation even when i see qualities i like in a female

kinda professional in person
 
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NoNameMcgee

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hahahaha

nice
 
Lynx

Lynx

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My attitude toward dating and relationships is as follows: if it happens, great! If not, oh well. Either way I'm not going out of my way to look for it. There are so many other aspects of life to be lived, I do not have time to waste running after something I may never get in the hopes that it will make my life complete and fulfilled.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Lynx said:
My attitude toward dating and relationships is as follows: if it happens, great! If not, oh well. Either way I'm not going out of my way to look for it. There are so many other aspects of life to be lived, I do not have time to waste running after something I may never get in the hopes that it will make my life complete and fulfilled.
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kinda agree but its weird to date period these days


if im going to date its more of testing phase to see if "this" could be my wife
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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No woman wants a cat who isn't box trained.. :p


Lynx said:
My attitude toward dating and relationships is as follows: if it happens, great! If not, oh well. Either way I'm not going out of my way to look for it. There are so many other aspects of life to be lived, I do not have time to waste running after something I may never get in the hopes that it will make my life complete and fulfilled.
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wwjd_kilden

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It's always been a mystery to me how two people end up being "a couple". Does it just happen or is there some secret spell you have to say? :p

It would be nice to have someone to cuddle up with, but then again, it's nice to have the apartment to myself as well :D
So, basically, I'm not actively looking for someone... I wouldn't even know how to.
 
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Tinuviel

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My view right now is that I'm ready to get married but there seem to be very few young men who are! Not interested in someone old enough to be my father, and all the people my age want to go through collage, grad school, establish their career or sow their wild oats. I haven't found anyone compatible, so I'm assuming that's God's way of saying wait :).
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Tinuviel said:
My view right now is that I'm ready to get married but there seem to be very few young men who are! Not interested in someone old enough to be my father, and all the people my age want to go through collage, grad school, establish their career or sow their wild oats. I haven't found anyone compatible, so I'm assuming that's God's way of saying wait :).
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youre probably right

its sliiiiiiim pickins these days it seems like
 
rachelsedge

rachelsedge

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I'm in the insurance field (not really by choice, just kind of where life took me). I learned that:

Speculative risk = Risk that could give you gain, change nothing, or cause loss. Example, gambling. You can win a million bucks, you can break even, or you can lose money.

Pure risk = You can only either do nothing or lose. This is what insurance is, because if you use it, it's always the result of a loss.

I view dating as pure risk right now - it would only change nothing or make it worse, not better.

I think I'll be ready to date again when I view it as speculative.

"Rachel: Bringing insurance into dating since 2017"

:cool:
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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rachelsedge said:
I'm in the insurance field (not really by choice, just kind of where life took me). I learned that:

Speculative risk = Risk that could give you gain, change nothing, or cause loss. Example, gambling. You can win a million bucks, you can break even, or you can lose money.

Pure risk = You can only either do nothing or lose. This is what insurance is, because if you use it, it's always the result of a loss.

I view dating as pure risk right now - it would only change nothing or make it worse, not better.

I think I'll be ready to date again when I view it as speculative.

"Rachel: Bringing insurance into dating since 2017"

:cool:
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My love life is like a good action movie: explosions, high-tech weaponry, and lots of things being turned to smithereens. And that's just on the first date. Don't even get me started on an actual relationship...

I sure hope you offer a good "Natural--And Unnatural--Disasters" clause.
 
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Galatea

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One part of your post I don't understand: why did you "have to break up" with a girl you loved? That makes zero sense to me.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Galatea said:
One part of your post I don't understand: why did you "have to break up" with a girl you loved? That makes zero sense to me.
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she lied to me a lot

i couldnt trust her
 
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NoNameMcgee

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NoNameMcgee said:
she lied to me a lot

i couldnt trust her
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i wasnt saved till i was 23

i broke up with her at 17 (only girl i loved.. why i distanced myself from relationships)
 
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