Hi, I really struggle with how I am treated by other church goers. So much so, I avoid going now. I am asked, as a conversation starter by people I don't know, things like "where is your husband?" and "why aren't you married?". Or I am asked if I have any children, and when I say no, I have literally had people turn their back to me and talk to someone else. Most of the Bible teaching makes references to marriage and I feel as a single person in my 30 ' s really left out. There are very few men attending church here (so I can't understand how the guys on here say they struggle to find a Christian girl to marry!). What makes matters worse is, I am out of work at the moment so I can't even use the excuse that I am a career woman either. In the past I have been obligated to help in children's groups etc but I just don't want to any more. And I agree with people on here who say that people wrongly assume that single people have so much more free time than married people...when it's all down to you to do everything, time easily gets used up. Also, smug married people have plenty to say about the gift of singleness and how blessed single people are! Anyway, I just wondered if anyone else felt the same. Cheers for reading, bless you all.