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Hi there!
Apologies for this detailed question / concern. I feel like I'm in a gray area and I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing.
So I met this guy while travelling and we started talking online about month and a half ago. In the beginning, I was almost positive he was interested in me. But now, I am not sure anymore, for many reasons (e.g. it takes him hours to reply, he doesn't ask that much questions about me).
We had dinner about a month ago and it was when I learned that he is a Catholic and/but doesn't have a real relationship with God.
Up to now, we still talk everyday and we also went out for dinner again. He just asked me if I wanted to have dinner next week. I know that I should not date him. But I do think we can be really good friends as we get along well and have many things in common. I also like meeting people, especially non-Christian, who I can share the gospel to.
I am unsure of his intentions - if he just wants to be friends or wants to be something more. I don't know if I should ask him his intentions and tell him I am looking for someone who shares the same faith and relationship with God as I do or if I should wait for a clearer sign or for him to tell me directly. I don't want to be assuming or to make things awkward when it doesn't have to be (if he just wants to be friends). But I also don't want to drag it and waste his time, effort, and money if he is interested in me.
Hope you can give me some advice.
Thanks,
E
Apologies for this detailed question / concern. I feel like I'm in a gray area and I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing.
So I met this guy while travelling and we started talking online about month and a half ago. In the beginning, I was almost positive he was interested in me. But now, I am not sure anymore, for many reasons (e.g. it takes him hours to reply, he doesn't ask that much questions about me).
We had dinner about a month ago and it was when I learned that he is a Catholic and/but doesn't have a real relationship with God.
Up to now, we still talk everyday and we also went out for dinner again. He just asked me if I wanted to have dinner next week. I know that I should not date him. But I do think we can be really good friends as we get along well and have many things in common. I also like meeting people, especially non-Christian, who I can share the gospel to.
I am unsure of his intentions - if he just wants to be friends or wants to be something more. I don't know if I should ask him his intentions and tell him I am looking for someone who shares the same faith and relationship with God as I do or if I should wait for a clearer sign or for him to tell me directly. I don't want to be assuming or to make things awkward when it doesn't have to be (if he just wants to be friends). But I also don't want to drag it and waste his time, effort, and money if he is interested in me.
Hope you can give me some advice.
Thanks,
E