very well thought out answers everyone,yes even the looks post because hey each to their own and nothing wrong with setting the bar high in different ways because as the bible puts it that when you find that special someone and marry,"you are as one" so it's best to really think things through before you make a serious commitment whether big or small because once you've chosen you are permanently bound to them because jesus said"what God hath joined together none can divide" so once married you are joined together as one and though you might divorce you'll still always be joined so naturally it's wise to think and keep one's wits about them because that ultimate choice of matrimony though people may act otherwise is not to be taken lightly,but in the mean time search your heart and don't rush in to a relationship til you are sure that you really do have feelings for someone and not some simple crush,been through that plenty and it goes nowhere,at least for me it has,well I'll check back in to see who else posts the quality/qualities they look for most in finding their other half,should be interesting!
