Besides, what is your primary goal in life? Is it to live life or is it to find a spouse? If you do find a spouse, will that bring meaning to your life that it did not previously have?
I don't go to church to meet a spouse, I go there to meet God. I don't go to a restaurant to meet a spouse, I go there because they can make some dishes I can't make at home. I don't hang out on the internet to meet a spouse, I hang out here because there's a lot of good thoughts bouncing around and I want to see some of them.
(And if a guy goes to a bar to find a girl he is going for the wrong reason! You go there to hang with your buddies and maybe get drunk or maybe just hang out.)
From what I have seen in my friends' lives, they keep finding their true loves when they are doing things in their normal everyday lives and happen to meet somebody. All the analysis in the world didn't help them. And the people I have observed desperately looking anywhere and everywhere for their soul mates have settled for something they thought was true love, just because they were so desperate, but they usually seem to get the short end of the stick.
Mind you, all this is based on what I've observed here in southwest Tennessee. It may all be different in a big city or some place across the world.