Will I Be Loved Again.

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Ruthiemo

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Hello, This is my first post here. so i hope i doing this right.

My second Husband has left me and it was because he said he did not love me anymore. I also have health issues and he could not deal with them.
My first marriage ended because he was abusive and also had a affair. I just feel that no one will ever love me again.
Christian woman with two failed marriages and 3 children, no one would ever want to love me would they?
 

tourist

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Hello, This is my first post here. so i hope i doing this right.

My second Husband has left me and it was because he said he did not love me anymore. I also have health issues and he could not deal with them.
My first marriage ended because he was abusive and also had a affair. I just feel that no one will ever love me again.
Christian woman with two failed marriages and 3 children, no one would ever want to love me would they?
That simply is not true. To get a real loving and faithful man to be your husband pray for God to search and find a man of your heart's desire.
 
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Ruthiemo

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Thanks just feel that something must be wrong with me. I feel not good enough. . its hard to not think that God is disappointed in me too.
 
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Ruthiemo

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thank you x
 
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Hi Ruthiemo,

I am saddened to hear how hurt you are! Remember we are called not only to believe, but to suffer, Philippians 1:29. Please do not blame yourself, stick close to God, church, prayer, the Word and let the time of sorrow run its course. The Psalms should serve as comfort for you. God bless.
 

Tommy379

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That simply is not true. To get a real loving and faithful man to be your husband pray for God to search and find a man of your heart's desire.
The "heart's desire" might be the problem.
 

christian74

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If two failed marriages and three children will keep him from loving you, then he's not worth your time. Fore sure.
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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Hello, This is my first post here. so i hope i doing this right.

My second Husband has left me and it was because he said he did not love me anymore. I also have health issues and he could not deal with them.
My first marriage ended because he was abusive and also had a affair. I just feel that no one will ever love me again.
Christian woman with two failed marriages and 3 children, no one would ever want to love me would they?

You are already loved :)
People suck. I know a person, who, has been my mother figure, a sister to me.
She told me until about 20 years she never once had a person who loved her.
But guess what? :)
She does now. She has an amazing soon to be husband, and I who couldn't adore and love her more.

So yes, and even if not by people in this world guess who loves you more than any person or earthly thing could?
Abba.
 
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Tabitha4thelord

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You will find Love again sweetie
There Is not one thing wrong with you
Some men would love to have instant family
My ex left me, making me think there was something wrong with me too
only to find out that there was something wrong with him...not me :)
He let lust control him and didn't let God do his work
So Im letting God do His work for me now
Jesus loves you very much and knows your hearts desire
Its In his good timing
May God bless you
 
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Hello, This is my first post here. so i hope i doing this right.

My second Husband has left me and it was because he said he did not love me anymore. I also have health issues and he could not deal with them.
My first marriage ended because he was abusive and also had a affair. I just feel that no one will ever love me again.
Christian woman with two failed marriages and 3 children, no one would ever want to love me would they?

Jesus Loves you so much that He died to be with you forever :) I am a 40 year old man, never been married, never had children. Been in a couple relationships, had my Heart broken severely when the Last relationship ended about 5 years ago. spent my whole life deeply anting to find what the world tells us we need you know that one and only true Love. what all the songs and movies tell us will complete us.

Ive found though that there is More Love in Christ for me, than I could ever need or could ever find in the world. when My heart was broken so badly i felt a little like you are saying here was crushed by the thought that id never find that one person to spend my life with. something happened during that time where i began seeking to really Know and relate with Jesus through His word. to really have a relationship with him. and i can honestly say that its more fulfilling than any relationship ive ever had, and i feel more Love than i ever Knew was possible. changed my Heart from sorrow to Joy..... I guess what im saying this for is to just remind you that Jesus is able to fill those voids in our Heart that we think we need to find another person to fill. and its much more tangible and fulfilling than maybe we experience when Our Hearts arent seeking Him personally.

Just wanted to encourage you and remind you that Jesus and all of Heaven Loves you sometimes we just get Lost from recognizing that truth. God bless you and i hope if its Gods will for you, you find someone to Love you in the way you are Longing for.
 
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Ruthiemo

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You are already loved :)
People suck. I know a person, who, has been my mother figure, a sister to me.
She told me until about 20 years she never once had a person who loved her.
But guess what? :)
She does now. She has an amazing soon to be husband, and I who couldn't adore and love her more.

So yes, and even if not by people in this world guess who loves you more than any person or earthly thing could?
Abba.
Thanks, I just worry, I don't cope well on my own very well. my church is closing too and feel a little abandoned.
I miss being loved and feeling loved and now not many people around me.
 
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Ruthiemo

Guest
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You will find Love again sweetie
There Is not one thing wrong with you
Some men would love to have instant family
My ex left me, making me think there was something wrong with me too
only to find out that there was something wrong with him...not me :)
He let lust control him and didn't let God do his work
So Im letting God do His work for me now
Jesus loves you very much and knows your hearts desire
Its In his good timing
May God bless you
Thank you for your message.

I always felt something is wrong with me. My husband was my best friend for years and he abandoned me. it was out the blue.

I feel so alone and i don't cope well alone. my friends are fed up of me and my church told me its closing. things seem so stressful at the moment.
 
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Ruthiemo

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Jesus Loves you so much that He died to be with you forever :) I am a 40 year old man, never been married, never had children. Been in a couple relationships, had my Heart broken severely when the Last relationship ended about 5 years ago. spent my whole life deeply anting to find what the world tells us we need you know that one and only true Love. what all the songs and movies tell us will complete us.

Ive found though that there is More Love in Christ for me, than I could ever need or could ever find in the world. when My heart was broken so badly i felt a little like you are saying here was crushed by the thought that id never find that one person to spend my life with. something happened during that time where i began seeking to really Know and relate with Jesus through His word. to really have a relationship with him. and i can honestly say that its more fulfilling than any relationship ive ever had, and i feel more Love than i ever Knew was possible. changed my Heart from sorrow to Joy..... I guess what im saying this for is to just remind you that Jesus is able to fill those voids in our Heart that we think we need to find another person to fill. and its much more tangible and fulfilling than maybe we experience when Our Hearts arent seeking Him personally.

Just wanted to encourage you and remind you that Jesus and all of Heaven Loves you sometimes we just get Lost from recognizing that truth. God bless you and i hope if its Gods will for you, you find someone to Love you in the way you are Longing for.
Thank you for sharing with me.

After my first marriage that was abusive, I felt strong, I felt alone and and lost friends and not had a supportive church. I looked for love in wrong places and made myself be used just so i could feel close to someone.

After time I fell in love with my best friend who was for years, I had alot of hurt and lot of upset i was dealing with but felt safe, loved and happy.

we both felt God brought us together and was been married almost 3 years, But for him to leave me out the blue, because he could not deal with me and my health and just left.

I have to move house by end of this week, with no where to go, my church is closing and friends have told me to suck it up and get on with things.

I feel so alone, and want to feel love. I know God loves me, but the little things of someone walking this life with me, side by side and to cuddle and to help me raise my children, I feel life is short and just dont want to hurt myself again by finding love in the wrong places. I know i have to Seek God and he will help, just not easy.

Thank you for your message through. xx
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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Thanks, I just worry, I don't cope well on my own very well. my church is closing too and feel a little abandoned.
I miss being loved and feeling loved and now not many people around me.
I know.
It's hard to cope well when you feel like you have nobody and you will never have anybody. It's not easy.
How often do you pray? And I don't mean a written out prayer. I mean how often do you talk to God about everything, like a friend?
I recommend doing it at least once a day

Do you keep a self affirmation journal?
If not you should
Write at least 3 things good about yourself everyday
It can be stupid things or things you don't believe
"I deserve love"
"I am loved"
"I am good enough"
It seems stupid, I know. But, eventually it will make a difference no matter how small it will.