Hello Everyone,
I have been dating a Woman in my Church now for about 4 months and have been getting along really great. I told her all the good and bad stuff that has happen to me throughout life and vice versa. We seem to be progressing well in our relationship but recently it seems that she is distant from me. I first noticed this when I called her on the phone. I had called her up to make sure she and her best friend made it to a destination where she was flying out of town to attend a wedding. When I spoke to her she seemed as if she wasn't too much wanting to talk to me and was very quick in finding ways to get me off the phone with her. I thought I was just making too much of a big deal about it but once she got back from her trip and called her we did talk for a few minutes but still didn't seem much like she wanted to talk to me. She did just get back from a long flight and was tired I can understand but the next day when I called her again to speak with her I had asked if I can come see her and she didn't seem too enthusiastic about it. She said that she was finishing some work from her job which I did understand and told her to focus on that and text me later when I can come by. I waited several hours to hear back from her and nothing until late in the evening to text me stating that she had gone to bed. It use to be when I would make plans to see her she couldn't wait but now I am getting this impression that she doesn't want to see or talk to me. I really want to talk about this with her but I don't want to seem like I am being Paranoid or making a bigger deal than what it is about this. Is this being Paranoid?
AZO
I have been dating a Woman in my Church now for about 4 months and have been getting along really great. I told her all the good and bad stuff that has happen to me throughout life and vice versa. We seem to be progressing well in our relationship but recently it seems that she is distant from me. I first noticed this when I called her on the phone. I had called her up to make sure she and her best friend made it to a destination where she was flying out of town to attend a wedding. When I spoke to her she seemed as if she wasn't too much wanting to talk to me and was very quick in finding ways to get me off the phone with her. I thought I was just making too much of a big deal about it but once she got back from her trip and called her we did talk for a few minutes but still didn't seem much like she wanted to talk to me. She did just get back from a long flight and was tired I can understand but the next day when I called her again to speak with her I had asked if I can come see her and she didn't seem too enthusiastic about it. She said that she was finishing some work from her job which I did understand and told her to focus on that and text me later when I can come by. I waited several hours to hear back from her and nothing until late in the evening to text me stating that she had gone to bed. It use to be when I would make plans to see her she couldn't wait but now I am getting this impression that she doesn't want to see or talk to me. I really want to talk about this with her but I don't want to seem like I am being Paranoid or making a bigger deal than what it is about this. Is this being Paranoid?
AZO
...Then if she does contact you, you will know if she wants the relationship, or whether she is lacking the chase, either way you will get your answer, don`t brood, praise the Lord when doubt comes over you, the enemy will want you to stay paranoid, hope all goes well...xox...