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I do realize this is person specific. but what I didn't know is that some men are quiet about these things.. Learning probability by exposure? is that a thing
The opposite actually. I've had no problems going out and strangers be made aware but family or friends.. forget about it. How much time does one need 
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I understand. But if you notice the contrast of alpha and beta males you can see one of the reasons why it's difficult to generalize too much.
I, for one, do not fall into a lot of typical concepts if what a man is. I am not a fan if sports, playing or watching, except for watching MMA. And even with that I'm not heavily into it.
But I do fall into the general make attitude if 'problem solver. When a woman shares a problem with women, they are more likely to get hugs and sympathy. Tell a man and he will begin working out how to fix the problem. I am a fixer. But I have been trying to learn to express what women need instead of always trying to fix things. At least with some women.
I am not macho, loud nor do i think I'm God's gift to women. While I like nice cars, especially old muscle cars, I know little about cars. Seemingly less than most guys.
As another user posted, men tens to be logical and can compartmentalize their thoughts. I can be that way at times, but other times I can be more emotional than most guys.
It's a huge variety is all I meant. Much of the perception of men revolves around the alpha male concept, even though there are Many males that don't fit that role. It may seem that most are dogs, because the dogs are the ones that want attention. But the ones that aren't dogs are likely the ones you don't notice because they aren't trying to be noticed. So the perception becomes imbalanced.
I, for one, do not fall into a lot of typical concepts if what a man is. I am not a fan if sports, playing or watching, except for watching MMA. And even with that I'm not heavily into it.
But I do fall into the general make attitude if 'problem solver. When a woman shares a problem with women, they are more likely to get hugs and sympathy. Tell a man and he will begin working out how to fix the problem. I am a fixer. But I have been trying to learn to express what women need instead of always trying to fix things. At least with some women.
I am not macho, loud nor do i think I'm God's gift to women. While I like nice cars, especially old muscle cars, I know little about cars. Seemingly less than most guys.
As another user posted, men tens to be logical and can compartmentalize their thoughts. I can be that way at times, but other times I can be more emotional than most guys.
It's a huge variety is all I meant. Much of the perception of men revolves around the alpha male concept, even though there are Many males that don't fit that role. It may seem that most are dogs, because the dogs are the ones that want attention. But the ones that aren't dogs are likely the ones you don't notice because they aren't trying to be noticed. So the perception becomes imbalanced.
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Depends on the individual. Some men like announcing things, but I imagine more men are less into making big announcements about relationships.
With my last gf I just never thought about it. I was too focused on her to, because she was so amazing, I didn't think about announcing anything. When the subject came up I wanted to, because I was so crazy about her I wanted to kind of show her off haha. She was the one less inclined to want to say anything. I was disappointed at first, but over time became aware that it was nice and made things seem more personal between us.
With my last gf I just never thought about it. I was too focused on her to, because she was so amazing, I didn't think about announcing anything. When the subject came up I wanted to, because I was so crazy about her I wanted to kind of show her off haha. She was the one less inclined to want to say anything. I was disappointed at first, but over time became aware that it was nice and made things seem more personal between us.
I know girls who have had bad experiences with men. Sometimes the problem is people search for something themselves instead of counselling with God first and asking him to lead you to the right one. Yea there are immature guys out there, however how you present yourself also makes a big difference who you attract. It's just as important to evaluate ourselves before evaluating others.
