I want a Wife.

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AllenDuckett

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My problem is, i know i want a wife, but i really want what God has first, so im gettin close to God so i can wait easily. I dont know what i want, i used to have a specific type, but now i just want the wife that is in proverbs chapter 31. Ive been in relationships, started dating when i was 20, im not a virgin, but in Gods eyes I am. buttt I will never do it again. From fear and love for God. But, I know I have a strong will for God, and i know I can lead my wife, right. But it seems like only bad girls look at me.. and they like me, but.. when they hear my heart, they think Im weak or sour, becuase i dont like the things they say, ya know. So i know i cant find, God must give by his will, and if i dont get one, its cool then i guess. My heart wants what God wants, and as you may already knows thats not popular to the world, so since i dont go out trying to be the worlds number 1 guy, then I am strange to women. Im not a bad looking Guy I think, But i have the heart of a child. And I hate when women treat me like I want to see them acting all nasty and not respecting themselves, not all men like that, espeacilly not men, who God is working on their hearts. We fall sometimes, but its not want we really want ya know.

I want a women who dreams. with a delicate heart. a heart for God and of God. She is to be praised.
Nasty girls always stare at me, its drives me nuts, now i know how girls feel when Guys honk at them. not all attention is good attention.
 
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jimmydiggs

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Nasty girls always stare at me, its drives me nuts, now i know how girls feel when Guys honk at them. not all attention is good attention.
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Don't be mean to them, but always remember, if you don't like it, don't do it to others. It also teaches us why lust isn't a great thing. We don't much appreciate it, so maybe others don't either.


Best of luck to you. Personally I say, seek god first, and if god thinks you are ready, he will send someone along.
 
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kiwi_OT

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Find yourself a decent christian bloke with a wife you admire (not in a dodgy way!) Learn from their relationship and the roles expected of a husband. Also get involved with childrens ministry so you get some practice with some kids. And stay close to God. Get REALLY into praying and reading your bible. Find every reference to biblical manhood in the new testament and make a few goals based on them. By doing this you will be honouring your future wife by appropriately preparing yourself instead of just sitting on your bottom twiddling your thumbs and fantacising about proverbs 31. She'll come in Gods timing :D

While your doing this in a supportive christian environment, keep an eye out for women God puts in your path, and dont mock Gods choices. God knows your 'type' better than you do
 
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