Because I am waiting to meet the person who wants to change the world with me, and to spend more time putting love outwards as a team, than to each other. I've had enough of that in my life, and some people look to find that special person so they can get married and start a family. Although yes that would be nice, I would still put my spiritual standards above it. I would rather be a part of change in the world, than find security in it. Finding security is 2nd best to our true purpose which only rarely is not ignored, or doubted. People give up on their childhood dreams far too soon, and yes maybe I am a dreamer, but I would not be me if I gave up being a dreamer. This is probably why I have more admirers now than when I thought love and security was the answer!