I am not a Virgin but in God's word I know better to be one until Marriage
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Peace be with you Katy in JESUS' NAME.
Good morning.
This is what you should do my dear sister, simply accept what GOD has done for you and what HE has said about you. Don't allow your feelings control you. That feeling you have comes from the devil and he wants you to feel so, so that you will be sad but refuse to accept such feelings or thought. Remember this is what you feel and not what GOD says about you. The day you were born again you became a new creature, and old things has passed away, and all things became new. That is, you are a new being which never existed before. For it is written, "Therefore if any man be in CHRIST, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new (2Corinthians 5:17)."
So, spend more time with the WORD of GOD and meditate on it. If you do this, your mind will be transformed and that feeling (I feel like I won't be able to find a Godly man to accept this about me) will leave you.
Confess what the WORD of GOD says always. For example, the WORD says that GOD has given us all things that pertain to life and godliness (2Peter 1:3). Confess this by saying, "Dear HOLY FATHER in the NAME OF JESUS, I thank YOU LORD for given me all things that pertain to life and godliness. I have all things that pertain to life and godliness. I manifest all things that pertain to life and godliness. I have a blessed husband. I am a blessed wife. I have a blessed family. I'm so blessed. Glory to Thy HOLY NAME FATHER, YOU have done it all for me."
Also remember that:
Those who trust in the LORD shall never be put to shame.
Those who wait upon the LORD, shall never be disappointed.
Trust in the LORD, HE never fails and HIS time is always the Best.
Good morning.
This is what you should do my dear sister, simply accept what GOD has done for you and what HE has said about you. Don't allow your feelings control you. That feeling you have comes from the devil and he wants you to feel so, so that you will be sad but refuse to accept such feelings or thought. Remember this is what you feel and not what GOD says about you. The day you were born again you became a new creature, and old things has passed away, and all things became new. That is, you are a new being which never existed before. For it is written, "Therefore if any man be in CHRIST, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new (2Corinthians 5:17)."
So, spend more time with the WORD of GOD and meditate on it. If you do this, your mind will be transformed and that feeling (I feel like I won't be able to find a Godly man to accept this about me) will leave you.
Confess what the WORD of GOD says always. For example, the WORD says that GOD has given us all things that pertain to life and godliness (2Peter 1:3). Confess this by saying, "Dear HOLY FATHER in the NAME OF JESUS, I thank YOU LORD for given me all things that pertain to life and godliness. I have all things that pertain to life and godliness. I manifest all things that pertain to life and godliness. I have a blessed husband. I am a blessed wife. I have a blessed family. I'm so blessed. Glory to Thy HOLY NAME FATHER, YOU have done it all for me."
Also remember that:
Those who trust in the LORD shall never be put to shame.
Those who wait upon the LORD, shall never be disappointed.
Trust in the LORD, HE never fails and HIS time is always the Best.
Hi Katy, reminding me of Mary Magdalene, do you know why Jesus said that what she did would be preached with His message: When She anointed Jesus for His burial? And that Jesus said of her, "One thing is needful and Mary has chosen that good part, that will not be taken from her." "Whoever is forgiven much Loves much." The love she had for the Lord was encouragement to Him on His journey to the cross. I understand the trouble of putting away your divided spirit. I have one, America has one, The one thing needful, in Paul's word's (another forgiven much) "Forgetting what is behind I go on." I would make my confession also but mine is so bad that it would make yours look bad, and also my humor still needs help, but you may find glimpses of my confession on posts here. If anyone is jealous of you being forgiven much, be reminded it will not be taken from you. Your confession is part of your healing Compliments to the Chief Musician on your behalf.
I was wondering if although forgiven by God do we need more? Although God forgives there is still consequences for our actions disobedience. I heard horrible stories about giving into lust and having sex before married.It can cause depression,low self esteem,make it hard to get married,make it hard to get pregnant.I wonder if you repent, acknowledge your sin,ask for forgiveness and turn away from a sinful life is more needed?? Please explain deliverance it's required also right?
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Hi Katy I just saw this post and want to reply,but my IPad battery is just on 6% and I gotta charge it?I will comment on you post soon.You have great worth before God and Jesus died for you?Your low self esteem seems central to you in many ways and you are allowing it to define you.Remember that woman in the bible that they were going to stone..????..God isn't going to condemn you..but he does want you to sin no more and you finding a godly man to marry is not determined by your past sins or you being a virgin..it is defined by the grace of god..Yet he wants you to become spiritually stable in him and not to resort to fornication then back with God again.
I will message once this is charged...
I will message once this is charged...
Purity is very valuable in starting a marriage but thank God it is not the most important thing.
You stated you desire a godly man who wants to follow Jesus. As a man who seeks to follow Christ the first two things I look for in a woman of God is her faithfulness to God and is she a Proverbs 31 women or if you rather a I Peter 3 type of woman.
I stated I thank God, purity is not the most important thing as there are many devoured men of God who are battling porn addiction (yes this includes me)!
Jesus asked a woman caught in adultery were are your accusers, John 8:10-11; she reply no man; and our Gracious Savior stated neither did He condemn her. But what is really beautiful about this story is that just moments before this happen Jesus defended her before a bunch of religious hyprocites and made them all leave.
If we as Believer could only understand how many times satan brings our faults before the Father; we have a much better understanding of how we are perfected because of Christ Jesus.
Yes we all have our faults but because of all that Christ did for us we are made perfect, Hebrews 10:14; II Corinthians 5:21.
So in God's eye you are perfect, if you know Jesus.
You stated you desire a godly man who wants to follow Jesus. As a man who seeks to follow Christ the first two things I look for in a woman of God is her faithfulness to God and is she a Proverbs 31 women or if you rather a I Peter 3 type of woman.
I stated I thank God, purity is not the most important thing as there are many devoured men of God who are battling porn addiction (yes this includes me)!
Jesus asked a woman caught in adultery were are your accusers, John 8:10-11; she reply no man; and our Gracious Savior stated neither did He condemn her. But what is really beautiful about this story is that just moments before this happen Jesus defended her before a bunch of religious hyprocites and made them all leave.
If we as Believer could only understand how many times satan brings our faults before the Father; we have a much better understanding of how we are perfected because of Christ Jesus.
Yes we all have our faults but because of all that Christ did for us we are made perfect, Hebrews 10:14; II Corinthians 5:21.
So in God's eye you are perfect, if you know Jesus.