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Thread: Singles! What Things Would You Put Down as Your "Traffic Light" Dating Profile?

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    Red: I'm more stubborn then a mule. Just ask my students. I have an obsession with learning. Also, I'm a teacher, so, sometimes, school can takeover.

    Yellow: I'm more of an introvert, and tend to prefer to stay home more then going out, or else hang out with only or two people. I love animals, and am apparently the animal rescuer for children, so much so, that last year, I was given a certificate for being the most likely teacher to start an animal hospital.

    I love being outdoors, and for some strange reason, little children love me. Not really sure why, but they do. (Course, that could also be a red or yellow, depending on how you view it.)
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    Procrastinating.



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    Not being ambitious.



    Reading Lynx's response felt almost like reading my own except for the minister part.
    I also have that noticing minor details for years thingie too haha - we are just like that, what can we say? I can almost see you through, what type of person you are (what's your personality type? ISFJ?). And I think not being ambitious should be in the green light section, being content with where you are and I totally get it man.
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    I am really loving everyone's answers here...

    Thank you so much for your honesty, and please continue to post.

    I really like that everyone is so willing to tell both the good... and a little of the bad, because it's real.
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    By The Way, I Could Tell Who Started This Thread Without Checking... Because She Always Capitalizes Every Word Of Thread Titles. =^.^=

    Not saying that's a bad thing, mind you. Just saying I can always recognize her thread titles.
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    Quote Originally Posted by christian74 View Post
    I also have that noticing minor details for years thingie too haha - we are just like that, what can we say? I can almost see you through, what type of person you are (what's your personality type? ISFJ?). And I think not being ambitious should be in the green light section, being content with where you are and I totally get it man.
    I never did that personality test thing. I'm probably a whole alphabet soup. And for me not being ambitious is a definite green light thing, but for many people it's a red light. They just can't understand why I COULD open a bakery or start a computer repair shop, but I DON'T. I think they see it as a fundamental life fail.
    "Do you sing at church?"
    "Yes I sing at church. And I sing at work. And I sing at home... and in the car... at the supermarket... at Wal-Mart..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by MollyConnor View Post
    Yellow: I'm trying to get to a point where Jesus is everything for me...and I don't want or need a boyfriend. I have found this to be the case where I'm always having a crush on different guys. I don't want that. I am working on keeping boundaries and saving not just my body but my emotions for my future husband.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    By The Way, I Could Tell Who Started This Thread Without Checking... Because She Always Capitalizes Every Word Of Thread Titles. =^.^=

    Not saying that's a bad thing, mind you. Just saying I can always recognize her thread titles.
    That's What I Was Taught In School, Though Not the Prepositions, I Admit. It's My Way Of Rebelling.

    And If I'm Feeling Really Fancy, I Sometimes Even Use All Capitals.

    You Know, Kind Of Like When I Ask, "LYNX, WHERE DID YOU SAY YOU PUT THAT BOAT PADDLE AGAIN... BECAUSE IT IS ABOUT TO GET A LOT OF USE."

    (When Does a Lynx Become a Duck?)

    As In, "Lynx, You'd Better Duck!!!"
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    RED:
    We, as Christians do sin everyday and I believe that there is always a SECOND CHANCE in accepting God Almighty and Jesus Christ in our lives while we are still living. There is a possibility that we can live a life like Paul. The challenge is I have a addiction to pornography. I struggle with it a lot.

    YELLOW:
    1. I am taking the Read The Bible Challenge everyday as a healing and fasting (skipping lunch everyday) as a sign of repentance.
    2. I am asking God Almighty for Mercy and Forgiveness. Also, I am asking for the renewal of Our Relationship.

    GREEN:
    I am a person who is gentle, funky and i love cooking and baking. I laugh a lot. I love to read the bible and household chores is something I need to do everyday. I never love violence, it kinda pulls down the curtains from being happy to sad. I love going out and I would love to work with someone who is able to help me with a charity project called FEED THE POOR, which i have not started yet. And hopefully, I would love to create my very own organisation to benefit the poor, who are living in the rural areas in my country. Not only that, I would love to share the Word of the Lord.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Notice Kim never did deny the allegation.
    Heck No, I Totally Embraced It.

    See Post #27, And Have A Nice Day!
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    Quote Originally Posted by seoulsearch View Post
    That's What I Was Taught In School, Though Not the Prepositions, I Admit. It's My Way Of Rebelling.
    Yes, I had already recognized the style from my Honors English class. Although... I hate to inform you, oh rebellious one, but the prepositions were never supposed to be capitalized. Maybe you could start capitalizing them as an act of rebellion.

    Although some claim the prepositions too should be capitalized. Maybe your current method IS rebellious. Or maybe...

    Eh, hang it. This is why rebellion gives me nosebleeds. =^.^=
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    Quote Originally Posted by seoulsearch View Post
    Heck No, I Totally Embraced It.

    See Post #27, And Have A Nice Day!
    Plead the fifth, Kim, it's just hearsay.
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    Aye, aye, aye... Kim quoted a post I made and then deleted. The reason I deleted it was because when I made it I had not seen the first line of her previous post. So it looks like she made up that post.

    Sorry about that y'all. That post of mine that she quoted DID exist, for a few seconds.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Yes, I had already recognized the style from my Honors English class. Although... I hate to inform you, oh rebellious one, but the prepositions were never supposed to be capitalized. Maybe you could start capitalizing them as an act of rebellion.

    Although some claim the prepositions too should be capitalized. Maybe your current method IS rebellious. Or maybe...

    Eh, hang it. This is why rebellion gives me nosebleeds. =^.^=
    Yes, That's What I Was Saying.

    In School, We Were Taught To Capitalize All The Words In A Title, But NOT The Preps, So That's Why Doing So Feels a Little Rebellious.

    And I Didn't Need A Fancy Honors Class For That, Just My Regular Lutheran School Teachers (Who Would All Have Heart Attacks If They Say Me Capitalizing Prepositions.)

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    Plead the fifth, Kim, it's just hearsay.
    My Wise Legal Counsel Has Spoken!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Aye, aye, aye... Kim quoted a post I made and then deleted. The reason I deleted it was because when I made it I had not seen the first line of her previous post. So it looks like she made up that post.

    Sorry about that y'all. That post of mine that she quoted DID exist, for a few seconds.
    Thanks for trying to make me look crazy.

    And then explaining that I'm not really crazy.

    But then just making me look crazy again.

    Trust me. I don't need any help in that department.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seoulsearch View Post
    Yes, That's What I Was Saying.

    In School, We Were Taught To Capitalize All The Words In A Title, But NOT The Preps, So That's Why Doing So Feels a Little Rebellious.

    And I Didn't Need A Fancy Honors Class For That, Just My Regular Lutheran School Teachers (Who Would All Have Heart Attacks If They Say Me Capitalizing Prepositions.)



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    "Say"??? Can't save you from this aftermath lol. Your Lutheran teachers gonna go hog wild on that one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seoulsearch View Post
    Thanks for trying to make me look crazy.

    And then explain that I'm not really crazy.

    But then make me look crazy again.

    Trust me, I don't need any help with that.


    This whole thing is crazy! I'm gonna go eat a slice of cookies and cream pie and wait for the dust to settle.
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    I am emotionally independent. Way too much. I don't think it's a problem right now, because I'm single, but it's something I don't think my (future) partner (if ever) would appreciate. I'm not distant or anything maybe it's just intimacy issues? Who knows.

    I'm very close to my family, like super. That's probably why I'm not looking to be in a relationship. If I'm honest with myself, I'm content growing old with my sister (who thinks the same) and my younger brother (who doesn't think the same, but he's still young
    ).

    I'm learning about God's grace both doctrinal and practical (seeing it apply in my life and daily struggles). Literally, like I study the gospel daily (read and listen to podcast) and all references to it throughout the bible (both literal and symbolical).

    As a result, I'm learning, more and more everyday, how to love and accept myself (faults and all) as well as others (faults and all). I'm learning to love sincerely and unconditionally. I'm not there yet, lol. God knows how much more of Him I need.

    I'm a very patient person (my old self was the worst person to deal with and I was an ex-perfectionist, so I reaped the benefits of that).

    I rarely get offended. When I do, I can easily get over it.
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    Abigail I like the last green light.

    I decided long ago that getting upset over offense was pointless. If the person did it by accident the offense was not intended. If the person did it on purpose, remonstrating with the jerk wouldn't do any good and would feed his ego.
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    RED: Name 1 or 2 challenges in your life that you feel might be tough for someone to see past.

    YELLOW: Name 1 or 2 things you're working on improving in your life, or asking God for help with.

    GREEN: Name 2 or more things someone would love about you, or that you could contribute to a relationship.



    i only have 2-3 free hours a day

    well right now one of the bigger things is listening better and waiting for the right time to speak or act

    uhh i can cook well... and im easy to please
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    Right? In most cases, it's unintended. In BDF cases, however...

    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Abigail I like the last green light.

    I decided long ago that getting upset over offense was pointless. If the person did it by accident the offense was not intended. If the person did it on purpose, remonstrating with the jerk wouldn't do any good and would feed his ego.
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