Plans for more tattoos or already covered in them
Lying to manipulate
No desire to learn how to cook
Doesn't like kids
Proudly state they love animals and hate humans
uses prescription anti-depressants as a solution to problems or doesn't see the issue with it
Suicidal or no hope for future
"bisexual"
Can't hold a job, always complaining about job
smells bad and doesn't wear deodorant or perfume
Doesn't maintain hair or body hair, excuse is "I'm not feminine enough why even try"
Extreme lack of confidence and self-esteem, unaffected by positive encouragement
Avoids confrontation (Not aggression, I mean like standing up to parents or for self)
Drags me down with their depression
Complain about weight and body image but won't change diet or exercise
Cuts themselves, abuses themselves, eating disorder with no hope in sight
Makes comments or criticizes me just to put me down without any kind of higher justification (mental abuse I guess)
Hits me knowing I won't do it back
Asks to buy them things and gets angry or becomes distant when I say no
Doesn't seem to appreciate anything or forgets quickly
Hard drug use, or periodic relapses into hard drug use
Cold personality, lack of empathy, self-centered
Poor impulse control/immature
When I feel like a parent and have no support
When I still feel alone
Doesn't seem possible to convert them to Christianity
And these are only "deal breakers" if our relationship doesn't seem to solve or change them or their is no hope
The not cooking thing could be overlooked (among others) I guess if everything else was in order, but by itself it's annoying and not desirable. I cook myself and when they expect me to do that AND pay when we go out it's too much of a burden to handle when I'm playing man and woman.