Ever been wrongly accused?

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BriJane

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Have you ever been in a situation where everything was completely above board but it was assumed you were wrong doing?

In my college days, living in a big shared house, it was assumed by the atheists I was living with that some kind of orgy was taking place. But I was actually hosting a prayer meeting and most of the young men there were destined for the priesthood!!!!! I still laugh about it. It was not that they heard or saw anything dodgy. They just could not believe all these young handsome guys would choose a holy lifestyle.
 

Magenta

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It happens here on a fairly regular basis when you take a strong stand on something that others object to. For instance, I was called a racist by someone here, and repeatedly falsely accused of using the "N" word, because I used the term "Negro" in relation to the most recent former president of the United States of America.
 
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Susanna

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I have been called racist, bigot, liar, war monger, hater, not Christlike, the N-word lover/hater, KKK/BLM-member...and just about every derogatory term in the book.

Well, C'est la vie...haha
 

Magenta

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Jul 3, 2015
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I have been called racist, bigot, liar, war monger, hater, not Christlike, the N-word lover/hater, KKK/BLM-member...and just about every derogatory term in the book.

Well, C'est la vie...haha
I think you are lovely, with a killer sense of humor :)
 
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abigail.pro
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Wrongly accused of being a closet psycho by my English teacher when I was in college, some 11 years ago.

Her reason: I was too happy to be considered normal.

Nothing more recent than that. Maybe behind my back :p but no fudge given...!
 

slave

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Mar 20, 2015
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My Ex told me I was - "using Jesus as too much of a crutch." "Jesus, is good and all, but you need to blend into the world too," she would proclaim. What she failed to see was I was called to the world to love it, but not be apart of it. And I was, without doubt, fully dependent on Jesus, which made her nervous because she had her feet still on the shoreline in regards to Him. What she inferred then, by evil suggestion mindfully, was that I was too dependent on Jesus for every little detail of my life; thus my use of Him as a "crutch," thwarted my effectiveness in the world and our family. I was useless in the world to her, despite working and giving her a home and three boys by the grace of God. This was because the world was her first-fruit and not Jesus.

But God has promised me and all those who are dependent on Him, that we are not useless in the world, I am as Jesus was - separate from the world; even, absolutely so. Yet, I love the world unlike the world itself can, (and they do love each other)! But naturally so, they also have enmity towards God in the nature of sinfulness.

My wife left me literally because she was upset I couldn't balance worldliness and God to create an acceptable life by her standards. She wanted Jesus, but only by label not by world omission; thus, not by sin omission. That was too harsh. I was patient with her, as God was patient with me, and would have always been. But, I could not merge what I knew could never be merged. For to do that would only solidify me on the wrong side - death. Once you see the reality of truth you cannot submerge its authenticity.

"May I never boast except in the Cross of Our Lord Jesus Christ thru whom the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world." (Galatians 6:14). When the world comes before me with its fascination and its power, it finds me dead to it, but I have agreed with God on His judgement about sin and the world. These are not only statements, as she would proclaim and hope for, made in God's Book, they are real, definite experiences in my life. She calls it a crutch, as I expect Satan would feed her, but it is victory and nothing short of it. Victory wrapped in genuine unconditional love! May God still bless her, as for the time she has here, there will be hope. Pray for my Ex, and for my three boy's. They are my mission field, and one's who God has loved dearly before me. Thx.
 
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No........ I've usually been guilty of most of it.
 

Lynx

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Aug 13, 2014
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I have been wrongly accused, but I try not to dwell on those times because it doesn't help and it makes my blood pressure rise. So for health reasons I cannot relate the times I have been wrongly accused.
 

Lighthearted

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Oct 17, 2016
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My Ex told me I was - "using Jesus as too much of a crutch." "Jesus, is good and all, but you need to blend into the world too," she would proclaim. What she failed to see was I was called to the world to love it, but not be apart of it. And I was, without doubt, fully dependent on Jesus, which made her nervous because she had her feet still on the shoreline in regards to Him. What she inferred then, by evil suggestion mindfully, was that I was too dependent on Jesus for every little detail of my life; thus my use of Him as a "crutch," thwarted my effectiveness in the world and our family. I was useless in the world to her, despite working and giving her a home and three boys by the grace of God. This was because the world was her first-fruit and not Jesus.

But God has promised me and all those who are dependent on Him, that we are not useless in the world, I am as Jesus was - separate from the world; even, absolutely so. Yet, I love the world unlike the world itself can, (and they do love each other)! But naturally so, they also have enmity towards God in the nature of sinfulness.

My wife left me literally because she was upset I couldn't balance worldliness and God to create an acceptable life by her standards. She wanted Jesus, but only by label not by world omission; thus, not by sin omission. That was too harsh. I was patient with her, as God was patient with me, and would have always been. But, I could not merge what I knew could never be merged. For to do that would only solidify me on the wrong side - death. Once you see the reality of truth you cannot submerge its authenticity.

"May I never boast except in the Cross of Our Lord Jesus Christ thru whom the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world." (Galatians 6:14). When the world comes before me with its fascination and its power, it finds me dead to it, but I have agreed with God on His judgement about sin and the world. These are not only statements, as she would proclaim and hope for, made in God's Book, they are real, definite experiences in my life. She calls it a crutch, as I expect Satan would feed her, but it is victory and nothing short of it. Victory wrapped in genuine unconditional love! May God still bless her, as for the time she has here, there will be hope. Pray for my Ex, and for my three boy's. They are my mission field, and one's who God has loved dearly before me. Thx.
Profound as usual and beautiful.
 

Lighthearted

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If I have been it's ok because there are plenty of times I should have not only been accused, but found guilty. Thank you Jesus for washing my heart white as snow...and help me everyday to do my best to keep it that way even though I fail so often in my attempts.
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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Been wrongfully accused that I am stealing hearts :D and they didn't know that I am naturally sweet :D :D






I was accused of stealing a jewelry in my bestfriend's house but God is good my best friend stood up for me


Her parents later ,found out that their daughter in-law took it :) And what I learned from what happened...be trustworthy all the time because when things happened like this people will stood up for you... The works of the enemy can't succeed because God is on my side... :)
 

Frazier991

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Nov 28, 2017
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I was accused of molesting my little girl by her mother. It backfired so badly on her finally that I got full custody. Probably the lowest point in my life. No one believed her that mattered but it doesn't matter-you never completely get over that. My daughter is now 26 years old and we remain very close.
 
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Ugly

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I've been accused of being ugly.
 

christian74

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Have you ever been in a situation where everything was completely above board but it was assumed you were wrong doing?

In my college days, living in a big shared house, it was assumed by the atheists I was living with that some kind of orgy was taking place. But I was actually hosting a prayer meeting and most of the young men there were destined for the priesthood!!!!! I still laugh about it. It was not that they heard or saw anything dodgy. They just could not believe all these young handsome guys would choose a holy lifestyle.


Dude, if you wanna tell others you are handsome and good looking and all that, you don't have to come up with fake stories like this. Seriously, stop acting like a high school kid here.
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a good example of being wrongly accused.
 
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Galatea

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Yes, of course. Everyone has. It is the problem with communication on Earth- people misinterpret and perceive things incorrectly. That is part of life.
 

BillG

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Feb 15, 2017
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I was wronglyaccused once of being intelligent.
I proved them and the accusation wrong.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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I was wronglyaccused once of being intelligent.
I proved them and the accusation wrong.
Same here. It seems that accusation is quite prevalent. Fortunately I am always proven innocent. :D
 
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joefizz

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Wrongly accused eh?
Ok get extra butter for the popcorn from the other threads this will take a very long time lol!
I have been wrongly accused of being gay and one time by police of being drunk all because I don't walk in a so called "normal" manner,or every once in awhile for not cutting my nails(I'm a gamer go figure and my nails just like my hair grow back in an abnormal rate in my opinion...) and for my sometimes high pitch voice(supposedly low tone voice men are somehow more "manly" sigh...)and even of all dumb things for my arm pit hair ironically not growing in as fast as other boys(mainly one cousin said all this ludicrousness to me and so it's no wonder I have blocked people out most my life,stupid accusations...),one aunt accused me of deleting her personal resume information with the excuse that "I was the last one to use her computer" and multiple power outages apparently don't delete data so they must be overlooked,course I can't blame her,most my family rummages through her belongings or she can't trust them because they are spiteful toward her,(hence her "guessing")despite her helping every single one of my family members including me over our lives,sad.