I have friends that were standing on the sidelines rooting for me in the beginning but my sideline is now empty. I had to learn that it is times like this that one is able to see who would stick around and who would forget about you. This time of Isolation has been an eye opener and my relationship with GOD has gotten better. I was ALWAYS a follower of HIS word but there has been times that I have fallen short by letting life get in the way.
Sometimes God allows, or even causes, us to be isolated for a time.
I remember being 18 and i was crazy for this girl. Beyond the usual puppy dog love typical of teen relationships. We never officially dated, but everything was there. One day i got a goodbye call from her. Naturally i was devastated as i didn't see it coming. I remember that night calling everyone i knew, to talk. Despite being a night during the week when nothing ever seemed to happen everyone was unavailable. It forced me to turn to God. I was rather amazed how well i felt after praying that night. Even the following weeks i held up better than expected. God put me in a place where there was no one left but Him. Rather sad that i had to be put in that position, but it taught me a lesson. Sometimes isolation is what we need the most. What's best for us isn't always pleasant or easy at the time, but in the long run it works out.
And i agree, it sounds as if your bf wasn't that connected, or committed. I had been thinking the same thing reading your first post.
Also rereading your first post i realize i misread. I thought you said his love for you was diminishing, not your love for him. That's why my response was so off haha. Sorry about that.
People struggling in general, especially with depression, do have a tendency to push people away. Not on purpose, and they may not even want that, but the way depression manifests itself does that very thing. So likely some part of you was pushing him away. And making it difficult to express things. Depression dulls us emotionally, while at the same time making us overly emotional. A very confusing combination, especially from the outside and being on the receiving end.
I can say as one who's both been the depressed one, and as one that's been on the sidelines, it can be difficult. Even knowing what's going on inside someone, to a degree, and knowing how it feels, it becomes difficult as time goes on. People who have never experienced depression can't even begin to grasp or understand the difficulty and are likely to leave quicker.
Hopefully something someone says in here provides some hope for you. Glad to hear you're getting some help, as well as growing closer to God through it all.