Being single sucks

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ArielJ1992

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Being single sucks

when does God send the right man into your life too pursue you?
 
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heartofdavid

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Better single than trapped into a living hell marriage.

When a "good catch" does come along,see how he treats mom. That is how you will also be treated
 
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Zi

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I've seen men love mom and never respect other women.

Watch how he treats people that he can't benefit from. Is he kind, keep his word. Is he impatient in restaurants..

Those are some things I pay attention to
Better single than trapped into a living hell marriage.

When a "good catch" does come along,see how he treats mom. That is how you will also be treated
 
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Zi

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I agree

Being single sucks. I actually said it a few days ago in another thread
 

Tommy379

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when does God send the right man into your life too pursue you?
Are you ready to be pursued?

Zi is right, being single sucks. I rather go to the dentist everyday.
 
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Ugly

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when does God send the right man into your life too pursue you?
No one is promised a spouse. He may send one, He may not. Marriage is not our purpose.
 

JosephsDreams

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Dec 31, 2015
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I find it a mixed bag. I would like to get married again, but also I like some things about being single.

If it happens fine, I would welcome it, but if not, I won't lose sleep either. Been on only one date in 3 years since my wife passed, and that was set up by a friend and I did not ask him to do that. Have not joined any dating sites, I am not on social media, and rarely strike up conversation with any single woman,
So obviously I am not looking to hard...
 

Tommy379

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Well, you have to put yourself on the market, so guys will start chasing you.

The location of the market, will determine what kind of guys come after you. This means, stay away from biker bars, bowling alleys, naval bases, and gangsta rap concerts.
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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when does God send the right man into your life too pursue you?
I can't answer this question because that's my question too for almost 40 years now :D



But in my opinion we will experience good days and bad days whether we are single or not...some days it sucks some days...it is better.



It sucks when you have no one to cook for :D and pretty sucks more when you cook and eat alone...



But it doesn't really consume my days,weeks and months... I can still say it is wonderful to be single...I am satisfied with what God has given me but it doesn't mean I don't desire someone to hold my hand in the future...I am just happy with what I've got right now...enjoying my singleness with the Lord Jesus while waiting :)


Sure some days I feel great being single and some days I feel that it sucks :D but I know where to go whenever I feel that way... in God's comfort :)


God bless you my sister ❤
 
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Zi

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Great advice
Well, you have to put yourself on the market, so guys will start chasing you.

The location of the market, will determine what kind of guys come after you. This means, stay away from biker bars, bowling alleys, naval bases, and gangsta rap concerts.
 

Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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I can't answer this question because that's my question too for almost 40 years now :D



But in my opinion we will experience good days and bad days whether we are single or not...some days it sucks some days...it is better.



It sucks when you have no one to cook for :D and pretty sucks more when you cook and eat alone...



But it doesn't really consume my days,weeks and months... I can still say it is wonderful to be single...I am satisfied with what God has given me but it doesn't mean I don't desire someone to hold my hand in the future...I am just happy with what I've got right now...enjoying my singleness with the Lord Jesus while waiting :)


Sure some days I feel great being single and some days I feel that it sucks :D but I know where to go whenever I feel that way... in God's comfort :)


God bless you my sister ❤
I'd like to know why you're still single. If you weren't on the other side of the planet, I'd snatch you up.
 

seoulsearch

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Well, you have to put yourself on the market, so guys will start chasing you.

The location of the market, will determine what kind of guys come after you. This means, stay away from biker bars, bowling alleys, naval bases, and gangsta rap concerts.
Well crud.

Tommy just listed every single one of my usual favorite hunting grounds.

I guess I'm going to have to start checking out Bingo Nights instead of Boogie Nights. :eek:

What a bummer. :(

("C-4!!! YES!! I have C-4!!! Me, me, me!!!")

Hold up... What do you mean, there's no "C" in "B-I-N-G-O."

No wonder I've never won a game yet. :(
 
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loverofjesus27

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Yeah, or begging someone to be with you when you are clueless about the other person and you don’t even know how seriously they are taking you just maybe waiting for you to leave so they can move on with their lives..... i need a straight outta compton bold kind of guy.
 

Tommy379

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Well crud.

Tommy just listed every single one of my usual favorite hunting grounds.

I guess I'm going to have to start checking out Bingo Nights instead of Boogie Nights. :eek:

What a bummer. :(

("C-4!!! YES!! I have C-4!!! Me, me, me!!!")

Hold up... What do you mean, there's no "C" in "B-I-N-G-O."

No wonder I've never won a game yet. :(
You should park in front of home depot, put a sign on your car that says "free bacon," and when a guy comes along, shoot him with the tranquilizer dart.
 

seoulsearch

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You should park in front of home depot, put a sign on your car that says "free bacon," and when a guy comes along, shoot him with the tranquilizer dart.
Unfortunately, my aim isn't all that hot.

I mean... I'm GUESSING that my aim isn't very good... Yes, just guessing.

It's certainly not like I've tried that before or anything. :cool:
 

Tommy379

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Jan 12, 2016
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Yeah, or begging someone to be with you when you are clueless about the other person and you don’t even know how seriously they are taking you just maybe waiting for you to leave so they can move on with their lives..... i need a straight outta compton bold kind of guy.
You should move on then. If a guy can't tell you straight up, what his intentions are, he is not a card carrying man.
 

Tommy379

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Unfortunately, my aim isn't all that hot.

I mean... I'm GUESSING that my aim isn't very good... Yes, just guessing.

It's certainly not like I've tried that before or anything. :cool:
I'm too trusting. If your sign said "free ride to the bacon warehouse," I'd get in the car with you.
 
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loverofjesus27

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Can you explain the card carrying man thingy?
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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I'm too trusting. If your sign said "free ride to the bacon warehouse," I'd get into the minivan with no windows with you.
Fixed your post for you.

No woman can transport a good trophy in just a mere car.