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    Personally I think it is all about balance and sincerity.
    Being nice to your partner is a good thing. Standing up for yourself is also a good thing. You can do both if you are both prepared to compromise.
    Being sincere is also important. Don't sugar coat things. Be up front about what you really feel and don't pretend to like something when you don't like it. Don't compromise just to please them if you know you will resent it later. Sometimes you need to agree to disagree (I hate that cliche but it seems appropriate here).
    I won't say never but it's extremely unlikely two people will be 100% compatible and always agree on every single detail. Good luck if you are those people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oby View Post
    Personally I think it is all about balance and sincerity.
    Being nice to your partner is a good thing. Standing up for yourself is also a good thing. You can do both if you are both prepared to compromise.
    Being sincere is also important. Don't sugar coat things. Be up front about what you really feel and don't pretend to like something when you don't like it. Don't compromise just to please them if you know you will resent it later. Sometimes you need to agree to disagree (I hate that cliche but it seems appropriate here).
    I won't say never but it's extremely unlikely two people will be 100% compatible and always agree on every single detail. Good luck if you are those people.
    Its not gonna happen xD but i dont fuly agree with that the entire point of marriage is for sanctification so compromise even when you don't like it because you're being made more like Christ its not about happiness even if it comes with that the main goal is to be more like Christ.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArcanePrince View Post
    Also you probably look like crap.
    You're right, I do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stranger36147 View Post
    You're right, I do.
    So negative lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynx View Post
    Who's waiting? Who's praying for a miracle? I'm just living my life, enjoying the good parts and getting over the bad parts.

    I am single because I happen to not be married. I'm not praying God will send me somebody in my life, I'm just living my life as it comes. If I find a lady and marry her, yay! If not, I'm still living my life.

    Also, I've seen crap that looked better than me. No shame in that. Some turds happen to look good.
    Especially Golden ones but revolting all the same,hahaha hahaha.
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    I'm a smart idiot that serves God and I'm determined to keep to a future I believe in and trolls don't like me.

    If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.

    You are perfect?
    self righteousness is as filthy rags the bible says.
    You might wanna reconsider that ideal.

    We are all family in God's eyes,so please at least try to get along,sincerely, a child of God.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaylagrl View Post
    Sorry,I don't usually break into the singles forum but Im here to inform you nice guys do not finish last. I married a nice guy and I specifically wanted a nice guy. The idea that women want a bad boy is Hollywood movies and magazines. Any mature woman wants a mature man. And mature men are nice men and they are confident in their manhood and they don't go throwing it around in peoples faces.And my husband is a long way from bad looking. Women try to flirt with him all the time till they see me. He doesn't think he's good looking,he doesn't even notice women flirting with him. But to make men think they have to be a jerk to get a woman is not good advice. And the alpha males I know are all jerks that are stuck on themselves and Id never date,let alone marry a guy like that.
    "Break in"?
    Singles forum has a "Door"???
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    I'm a smart idiot that serves God and I'm determined to keep to a future I believe in and trolls don't like me.

    If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.

    You are perfect?
    self righteousness is as filthy rags the bible says.
    You might wanna reconsider that ideal.

    We are all family in God's eyes,so please at least try to get along,sincerely, a child of God.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stranger36147 View Post
    You're right, I do.
    I'm sure that you do not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by joefizz View Post
    "Break in"?
    Singles forum has a "Door"???

    ​I came down the chimney
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    I just found out this thread. Im really happy and amazed to guys who are godlymen to whom they focus themselves praying to God and believing on Him. Keep it up!! GOD will grant you a godlywoman :-)

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    God will? Oh goody!

    Oh wait... Never mind.
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    "Yes I sing at church. And I sing at work. And I sing at home... and in the car... at the supermarket... at Wal-Mart..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaylagrl View Post
    ​I came down the chimney
    Did you get stuck only once for a moment or two?
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    Joefizz- king of randomness -making others laugh is his hobby.

    I'm a smart idiot that serves God and I'm determined to keep to a future I believe in and trolls don't like me.

    If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.

    You are perfect?
    self righteousness is as filthy rags the bible says.
    You might wanna reconsider that ideal.

    We are all family in God's eyes,so please at least try to get along,sincerely, a child of God.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joefizz View Post
    Did you get stuck only once for a moment or two?
    Are you calling her fat?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy379 View Post
    Are you calling her fat?
    O.O WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU ARE YOU TRYING TO GET HIM KILLED? YOU'RE INSANE RUN JOE RUNNNN
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    He is the one that said it. Joe called kaylagrl fat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaylagrl View Post
    ​I came down the chimney
    ...And I took a crowbar to the window.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy379 View Post
    Are you calling her fat?
    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy379 View Post
    He is the one that said it. Joe called kaylagrl fat.
    So tommy,implies but I didn't I was making a grinch narration,nice try though tommy.
    Joefizz- king of randomness -making others laugh is his hobby.

    I'm a smart idiot that serves God and I'm determined to keep to a future I believe in and trolls don't like me.

    If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.

    You are perfect?
    self righteousness is as filthy rags the bible says.
    You might wanna reconsider that ideal.

    We are all family in God's eyes,so please at least try to get along,sincerely, a child of God.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LightBright View Post
    O.O WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU ARE YOU TRYING TO GET HIM KILLED? YOU'RE INSANE RUN JOE RUNNNN
    Why would I run?
    I like living on the edge!
    Joefizz- king of randomness -making others laugh is his hobby.

    I'm a smart idiot that serves God and I'm determined to keep to a future I believe in and trolls don't like me.

    If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.

    You are perfect?
    self righteousness is as filthy rags the bible says.
    You might wanna reconsider that ideal.

    We are all family in God's eyes,so please at least try to get along,sincerely, a child of God.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joefizz View Post
    Did you get stuck only once for a moment or two?


    I did,but my little white doggie pulled me out
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    Quote Originally Posted by WineRose View Post
    ...And I took a crowbar to the window.

    ​I like your way better. Sounds so much easier.
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    Quote Originally Posted by joefizz View Post
    So tommy,implies but I didn't I was making a grinch narration,nice try though tommy.

    ​Im not fat Im fluffy! rofl
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