I have been seeking Gods will and plans for when 2 people meet and form a relationship. Is there such a thing "it wasnt meant to be", or it wasnt part of Gods plan for you? The reason I ask is, I met a girl over a year ago. We were drawn to each other for many reasons, but mainly we both followed Christ and saw a lot eye to eye. Its something I can say I have not had. We both love each other, but the relationship ended and we didnt feel like we were compatible overall. We grew complacent and didnt really lean on the word which I feel responsible for not leading that.
Well here is what sparked my question. Someone told me, "maybe you just werent meant to be together and it wasnt in Gods plan". Instantly my heart told me thats not the way it works but I am conflicted. Isnt it Gods plan for 2 followers of Christ to meet, love and enter into marriage? Yes. But, is the rest our free will or does he interfere and it falls under, he brings people into your life for a reason even for a short time.
One thing that I never put much thought to or simply forget is "spiritual warfare" and underestimating the enemy.
So I struggle with the fact if 2 christians love one another but fears and scars from the past keep it from working. Is this Gods interference or all the devils work?
Well here is what sparked my question. Someone told me, "maybe you just werent meant to be together and it wasnt in Gods plan". Instantly my heart told me thats not the way it works but I am conflicted. Isnt it Gods plan for 2 followers of Christ to meet, love and enter into marriage? Yes. But, is the rest our free will or does he interfere and it falls under, he brings people into your life for a reason even for a short time.
One thing that I never put much thought to or simply forget is "spiritual warfare" and underestimating the enemy.
So I struggle with the fact if 2 christians love one another but fears and scars from the past keep it from working. Is this Gods interference or all the devils work?