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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by AuntieAnt View Post
    Most of the time I’m happy as a clam even while doing the most mundane things like:
    Nice post Auntie! It starts with a smile. Happiness is up to us.
    It helps to be content.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lighthearted View Post
    Thanks y'all...nice things to say...It's not that I feel alone spiritually...my relationship with Jesus is better than ever.

    I was married for over 20 years. Although it was very painful and I tried nearly everything to save my marriage and prayed continually...it was not to be. He continually chiselled away the trust I had in him.

    It's been 7 years...and although I told myself I'd never get married again...I find that my feelings have changed and I long for that connection with someone in my life.
    Thank you for your testimony. You seem like a good person. People can be difficult; but they are worth it. I have been married for 18 years. I love my wife and she loves me. The only way it has worked is through GOD's plan but both of us had to be on it. Serving one another and not ourselves, Focusing on the good and forgetting the bad, being content and staying busy.

    I think these principles should be applied to everyone. The secret to sanity and a happy life; GOD!
    LORD I believe; help THOU my unbelief! For YOU have given us all things that pertain to Life and godliness through Jesus Christ.

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stranger36147 View Post
    That woman looks attractive. If I was reading somewhere, I think I'd be happy if she was reading her own book next to me.
    Look at them feet.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    I feel most lonely at night. I come home to an empty place and cook and eat alone
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Not really. I'm working on that. I have lost track of friends over the years & my family is a little Cray Cray. I spend most of my time at work. Unfortunately I've experienced a lot of nastiness from people who are supposed to be friends & loved ones.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by dailybread View Post
    I feel most lonely at night. I come home to an empty place and cook and eat alone
    You could volunteer to feed the homeless, that way you wouldn't eat alone and you just might meet another volunteer who doesn't like eating alone......just sayin'.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by dailybread View Post
    I feel most lonely at night. I come home to an empty place and cook and eat alone
    You need a cat to greet you and purr when you come home.

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Yeah, you need a cat to greet you when you come home.

    Romans 8:28: “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God,
    to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    When I was a lonely single I found a girl friend and married her.
    M & M's melt in your mouth and not in your hands.

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by zeroturbulence View Post
    I used to go into the chat rooms here, but now all they do is talk about scripture 24 hours a day. I wish they would make the Lounge the entry point instead of the Bible Study room like it used to be in the old days.... Now they have this room called MarsHill. What is that???
    I think that it's some kind of candy bar.
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    M & M's melt in your mouth and not in your hands.

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by dailybread View Post
    I feel most lonely at night. I come home to an empty place and cook and eat alone
    Been there, done that, bought the T shirt.
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    M & M's melt in your mouth and not in your hands.

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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stranger36147 View Post
    That woman looks attractive. If I was reading somewhere, I think I'd be happy if she was reading her own book next to me.
    She's just a phone call away.
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    M & M's melt in your mouth and not in your hands.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deade View Post
    Yeah, you need a cat to greet you when you come home.

    No not a ninja cat.
    Something cute and cuddly like bobcat or an ocelot.
    Real purring, real claws.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by dailybread View Post
    I feel most lonely at night. I come home to an empty place and cook and eat alone
    Quote Originally Posted by CeCe0000 View Post
    Not really. I'm working on that. I have lost track of friends over the years & my family is a little Cray Cray. I spend most of my time at work. Unfortunately I've experienced a lot of nastiness from people who are supposed to be friends & loved ones.
    I'm sorry you guys are dealing with this.. I hope you each have a friend that you can talk to.
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    I feel lonely at night. When my kiddo is put to bed and the chores are done. I want to curl up on the couch and talk about our day or watch something thought provoking. I can always find something else to do though. I never run out that.

    I watch a movie (hoping for a happy ending)
    read
    talk to a friend
    listen to music
    or some other important pursuit
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    Quote Originally Posted by NewStuff17 View Post
    I feel lonely at night. When my kiddo is put to bed and the chores are done. I want to curl up on the couch and talk about our day or watch something thought provoking. I can always find something else to do though. I never run out that.

    I watch a movie (hoping for a happy ending)
    read
    talk to a friend
    listen to music
    or some other important pursuit
    I use youtube to find a lot of thought provoking stuff. They have videos on any subject. Right now I am trying to learn more about low carb dieting and intermittent fasting, and also there is this psychologist who gives really good advice on how not to be a pushover in life and how always being "agreeable" is harmful for a person's mental health..
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    Default Re: ? 4 singles...when do you feel the loneliest, how do you find comfort?

    This might find sad but I usually see myself as the underdog in life so when I feel alone, I basically feel the world is against me and try to convince myself I do t need anyone. I then try to do things on my own that only pleases me knowing, hey who needs people".
    “Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”
    Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



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