What to do after rejection

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walkOnWater

walkOnWater

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how does one build herself up again after a number of rejection?
when people treats you like their world but then treats you like a stranger once they find someone better?
how does one learn to trust again?
or should i say, how does one trusts herself that she’ll be able to stand up in case it happens again?
how does one stop herself from looking at one’s self like a mess that will never be fixed?
and what does one do to go on and live carefree and happy?
 
Rogue_One

Rogue_One

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Healing is a process. Just do anything you need to do and be healed one day a time. Life goes on, don't get stuck there. God bless.
 
HannahA

HannahA

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been there done that
i agree with Rouge_One
you will be better trust God and His timing
God bless you walkOnWater :)
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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I've been there and it was really painful :( but...

I still believe that there is always a good side to every rejection we experience in this life...it hurts especially when you remember those "I love you,I miss you, take care" days... but we should not forget that the person that rejected you didnt really value you as much as you did because if that person did He will never walk out on you when things get hard. He will never replace you with someone new even if he is surrounded by women chasing him...because his heart only belongs to you.



Accept that he is not the right person for you...that you deserve someone who will love you no matter what...who will always be by your side through thick and thin. That you are precious and whoever will going to truly give his heart to you will be so blessed because you know that you can give the love back and can give more..

because you know that you will going to fight till the end and will never give up on him...




Someone better will come into your life someone that will value your love someone that will never think of leaving you someone that will respect you :)

Just continue to love...don't give up on love because everytime you open your heart to love there is a chance that you are letting someone who might be God's best for you :)
It is going to be worth it when God's best finally comes :) it will going to be a happily ever after yayyy ❤


I'll be praying for you...

God bless you sis ❤
 
PennEd

PennEd

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walkOnWater said:
how does one build herself up again after a number of rejection?
when people treats you like their world but then treats you like a stranger once they find someone better?
how does one learn to trust again?
or should i say, how does one trusts herself that she’ll be able to stand up in case it happens again?
how does one stop herself from looking at one’s self like a mess that will never be fixed?
and what does one do to go on and live carefree and happy?
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The thing about emotional pain is the same feelings can be felt AGAIN just by thinking of the situation. This isn't true with physical pain.

But we have to keep giving all of ourselves in relationships. We will NEVER experience the awesome if we don't.

Dear Father, heal Your daughters heart, and give her the strength to endure the bad, so that she can have the incredible. In Jesus Name.
 
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