Why do christian woman prefer a non-christian husband?
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I know my post is probably going to come across as being a bit blunt, but I have to point out something obvious here.
Do you ever read or listen to the things you say?
Now granted, I haven't read all of your posts, but all the ones I HAVE read are critical, judgmental, and sometimes even come across as hateful--whether directed at yourself or at others.
Here are just a few examples:
It should seem obvious, but you seem completely oblivious to the fact that NO ONE is going to want to be friends with or date someone who is always highly critical of everyone around them, including themselves.
Now I know you're going to keep right on posting things such as, "Why oh why can't I find a date," "Why oh why are women so shallow--surely it's all their fault and not my attitude towards them, or myself", and, "Woe is me, I'm so ugly, if only women weren't so into looks, I'd have a chance"...
Thank goodness you wrote this latest thread, because blaming everyone else for being a non-Christian or for supposedly choosing a non-Christian always seems to be at the top of a person's list who blames everyone else for something they refuse to see about themselves. After all, we wouldn't want to leave any major excuses out.
But the answer is right there in front of you.
People run from someone who is nothing but negative about themselves and the people around them. No one wants to sit and listen to someone who does nothing but criticize themselves and others.
As long as you maintain these types of attitudes as your frame of mind, unfortunately, I can understand why 500 women might decline your approach on a dating site, and you can pretty much guarantee for yourself that unless your heart and attitude changes, you can keep on expecting the same reaction.
Do you ever read or listen to the things you say?
Now granted, I haven't read all of your posts, but all the ones I HAVE read are critical, judgmental, and sometimes even come across as hateful--whether directed at yourself or at others.
Here are just a few examples:
It should seem obvious, but you seem completely oblivious to the fact that NO ONE is going to want to be friends with or date someone who is always highly critical of everyone around them, including themselves.
Now I know you're going to keep right on posting things such as, "Why oh why can't I find a date," "Why oh why are women so shallow--surely it's all their fault and not my attitude towards them, or myself", and, "Woe is me, I'm so ugly, if only women weren't so into looks, I'd have a chance"...
Thank goodness you wrote this latest thread, because blaming everyone else for being a non-Christian or for supposedly choosing a non-Christian always seems to be at the top of a person's list who blames everyone else for something they refuse to see about themselves. After all, we wouldn't want to leave any major excuses out.
But the answer is right there in front of you.
People run from someone who is nothing but negative about themselves and the people around them. No one wants to sit and listen to someone who does nothing but criticize themselves and others.
As long as you maintain these types of attitudes as your frame of mind, unfortunately, I can understand why 500 women might decline your approach on a dating site, and you can pretty much guarantee for yourself that unless your heart and attitude changes, you can keep on expecting the same reaction.
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The Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR) is a notorious neo-Jihadi group in the United States that masquerades as a civil rights organization.
In truth, the group cares very little about true civil rights or religious freedom outside the practice of Islam. CAIR famously complains about petty slights to Muslim-Americans while ignoring far more serious human rights violations against non-Muslims in the Islamic world.
CAIR's true interest is the advancement of Islam, which its leaders feel is best pursued by pulling Muslim-Americans into a disaffected bloc, thereby maximizing political power - but at the expense of the very assimilation which has helped Muslim individuals become successful in the United States. In other words, if CAIR gets what it wants, it's bad for everyone.
10 Facts About CAIR:
In truth, the group cares very little about true civil rights or religious freedom outside the practice of Islam. CAIR famously complains about petty slights to Muslim-Americans while ignoring far more serious human rights violations against non-Muslims in the Islamic world.
CAIR's true interest is the advancement of Islam, which its leaders feel is best pursued by pulling Muslim-Americans into a disaffected bloc, thereby maximizing political power - but at the expense of the very assimilation which has helped Muslim individuals become successful in the United States. In other words, if CAIR gets what it wants, it's bad for everyone.
- CAIR was created by the Muslim Brotherhood, an Islamic supremacist organization that pioneered 20th century Islamic terrorism and sanctions violence against civilians.
- CAIR only has about 5,000 members, despite a membership fee of just $10.
- CAIR represents the opinions of only 12% of Muslim-Americans according to Gallup.
- CAIR receives financial support from foreign powers who have also provided direct support to Osama bin Laden, al-Qaeda and Hamas.
- CAIR has solicited money from sponsors of terror and received financial support from convicted terrorists.
- CAIR founders have praised terrorists to Muslim audiences and said that suicide bombers are acting on behalf of Islam.
- CAIR has raised funds for terrorists under the guise of helping 9/11 victims.
- CAIR board members have called for the overthrow of the United States and the imposition of Islamic law. CAIR has suggested applying Sharia punishment (ie. the death penalty) to users who criticize Islam on the Internet.
- At least 15 high-level CAIR staff members have been under federal investigation for ties to Islamic terror.
- CAIR has discouraged Muslim-Americans from cooperating with law enforcement and has spent more time and money advocating on behalf of convicted terrorists than for their victims. https://thereligionofpeace.com/pages/site/cair-questions.aspx
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