Why do christian woman prefer a non-christian husband?

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Why do the vast majority of christian women get in relationship with non Christians? The bible forbids this. Dont these women want to have a husband they go to church with and read the bible with? To have a husband to share your faith with? If the purpose is to make this none Christians into Christians it has indeed failed big time because almost all of them remains non christian. In fact the children gets brainwashed into being non christian by the father. What about Christian males? Do they have relationship with non Christians? Only a very few of them. Why have christian women forsaken Christian males? You christian women are condemning christian males to loneliness.
 

melita916

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i think a better question is:

why does a believer get into a relationship/marry a non-believer?

it happens in both sexes.
 

Socreta93

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Don't women stereotypical go after the bad boy?
 
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I'd love to see some valid statistics proving this theory, and not some off kilter speculation.
While this site regularly gets "where are all the good Christian men/women" questions we do see it more often from women. Which would oppose your claim. Or, you could say it verifies it with an explanation.

But really why are you complaining about "condemning Christian males to loneliness"? According to you you're such a hideous beast no woman would want you anyways, so you're not losing out.

Really this thread, much like your first thread about how ugly you are, is nothing more than a an attention seeking ploy. Say something to stir the pot. I'm not sure if it's bad trolling or purposefully understated.
 

Lighthearted

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Don't women stereotypical go after the bad boy?

Sure...stereotypically. At least that's what a lot of men think. Most women I know...believers or not...want a man who will love his wife and do whatever is in his power to treat her as if she were the only woman on earth! Now that is a manly man! If she is a good and loving wife worthy of such a man...she will treat you very well and make it obvious to anyone looking in...that she adores you and wants no one else...certainly boosting your confidence and high fives from your bro's!

As a Christian woman tho...wanting a Christian man is important...it's really the best way of having a man like above. If he loves God, he should also love you. God centered marriages tend to last when they stay Godly focused.
 
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Dino246

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Why do the vast majority of christian women get in relationship with non Christians? The bible forbids this. Dont these women want to have a husband they go to church with and read the bible with? To have a husband to share your faith with? If the purpose is to make this none Christians into Christians it has indeed failed big time because almost all of them remains non christian. In fact the children gets brainwashed into being non christian by the father. What about Christian males? Do they have relationship with non Christians? Only a very few of them. Why have christian women forsaken Christian males? You christian women are condemning christian males to loneliness.
I'm wondering where you get your statistics. I also wonder at your reasoning.

Perhaps the problem is that one particular Christian male feels passed over, forsaken and condemned to loneliness, and instead of bringing his hurting heart to Jesus, he decided to dump on others with unsubstantiated but critical rhetoric. Just so you know, complaining about women "in general" is not an attractive habit.

Allow me to offer you some advice: don't worry about what "all the Christian women" are doing. Press into Christ continually and ask Him to change you into a mature, whole, and godly man. You will realize that you only need Him, and that you will have far more to offer a potential wife should that be His will for you.
 
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i think a better question is:

why does a believer get into a relationship/marry a non-believer?

it happens in both sexes.
Christian woman marry non-christian males because christian males are either very anti-women or because the society are demonizing christian males.

indeed, some christian males marry non-christian women, but its not very often on the other hand almost all christian women have non-christian husbands...

nobody wants a christian husband in todays world.....
 

Tommy379

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Maybe there aint enough Christian men.
 

Tommy379

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here in sweden the christian woman are marry with muslim husbands
You should be down with that, unless you're an islamaphobe, as you would call it.
 
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I'd love to see some valid statistics proving this theory, and not some off kilter speculation.
While this site regularly gets "where are all the good Christian men/women" questions we do see it more often from women. Which would oppose your claim. Or, you could say it verifies it with an explanation.

But really why are you complaining about "condemning Christian males to loneliness"? According to you you're such a hideous beast no woman would want you anyways, so you're not losing out.

Really this thread, much like your first thread about how ugly you are, is nothing more than a an attention seeking ploy. Say something to stir the pot. I'm not sure if it's bad trolling or purposefully understated.
there is no statistics for this stuff...

but from what i have seen its true...

this thread is not about me,,,its about the singelhood majority of christian males are living in....

i am very ugly man....no chance for me....

not trolling...
 

Tommy379

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there is no statistics for this stuff...

but from what i have seen its true...

this thread is not about me,,,its about the singelhood majority of christian males are living in....

i am very ugly man....no chance for me....

not trolling...
You should get into mixed martial arts. Women like men that van carry thenselves.
 
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I'm wondering where you get your statistics. I also wonder at your reasoning.

Perhaps the problem is that one particular Christian male feels passed over, forsaken and condemned to loneliness, and instead of bringing his hurting heart to Jesus, he decided to dump on others with unsubstantiated but critical rhetoric. Just so you know, complaining about women "in general" is not an attractive habit.

Allow me to offer you some advice: don't worry about what "all the Christian women" are doing. Press into Christ continually and ask Him to change you into a mature, whole, and godly man. You will realize that you only need Him, and that you will have far more to offer a potential wife should that be His will for you.
complaining about men in general is attractive...
 

Gabriel2020

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If they are already married, and neither are christians, and then by chance one become a christian. Then the one that is not will have to except it, live with it or leave, and the other must let the non-believer go. Now on the other hand ,if a Christian seek a non Christian for marriage , then it is because of the lust of the flesh, and not spiritual. They want the other's body, and substance, but not their mind.
 
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You should be down with that, unless you're an islamaphobe, as you would call it.
i dont have problem with it, but i have problem with christian women forsaken christian males.

i wish i was muslim btw, muslim woman have more honor than christian women.
 
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Sure...stereotypically. At least that's what a lot of men think. Most women I know...believers or not...want a man who will love his wife and do whatever is in his power to treat her as if she were the only woman on earth! Now that is a manly man! If she is a good and loving wife worthy of such a man...she will treat you very well and make it obvious to anyone looking in...that she adores you and wants no one else...certainly boosting your confidence and high fives from your bro's!

As a Christian woman tho...wanting a Christian man is important...it's really the best way of having a man like above. If he loves God, he should also love you. God centered marriages tend to last when they stay Godly focused.
christian women dont want a man who is conservative, christian males are conservative while christian women are feminists left wingers liberals .
 
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i dont have problem with it, but i have problem with christian women forsaken christian males.

i wish i was muslim btw, muslim woman have more honor than christian women.

 

Ezekiel8

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christian women dont want a man who is conservative, christian males are conservative while christian women are feminists left wingers liberals .
Lol funny enough I was going to comment along these lines, though you have it backwards from how I would state it lol. Let the liberals bear their shame. It's better to live alone in a desert than with a woman after that sort, just like the Bible says!
 
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i live among muslims and can compare them with christians.

muslim women have hijab and they only marry muslims. muslim women are conservative.

christian women have no hijab, they marry non-christians and they are feminist liberals.
 
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