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For the past years I was in a relationship with a guy who was over protective and obossessed.It made me so uncomfortable since it was my first time to be in this kind of a relationship. He never wanted me to hangout with my friends which made me feel soo bad.He only wanted me to be with only him since he was insecure all the time.He would call me more the five timestar a day only to find out where I am just because of his insecurity issues. It started getting tired of everything though I didn't have the courage to walk away. I had never relied on him for my expenses and he never cared about it.He was a stingy guy .I know I also had soo many things to learn but I wouldn't discuss with anyone and ever since those years it made think that if all relationships are like that then it's not good thing to do.
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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Hi!Dorry :)



Based on my experience not all relationships are the same...not all men are the same...don't be afraid to open your heart again...fall in love again...but also don't be afraid to walk away and distance yourself from those
that dont make you feel the way you know you deserve...

Someday someone will going to come into your life someone who sees your worth ,will treat you better...will treat you with respect and kindness...I tell you now sister it will be worth it :)




God bless you ❤
 
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Wow,thanks sweetmorning I believe if someone knows ur worth they will treat you better. Thanks
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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Wow,thanks sweetmorning I believe if someone knows ur worth they will treat you better. Thanks
You are right sister :) that is absolutely true ❤



glory be to GOD and you are welcome sis hugsssxxxx
 

Demi777

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I always make clear what I look for and set limits. A guy that loves u will love u the wayyou are. My bf is a little over protective sometimes but is willing to listen and calm down. Its normal for a man to be protective but if he starts to cut ur freedoms and use your insecurities.... just leave. There is no future with someone like th at
 
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Sure,they ought to trust you because the reason for insecurities is lack of trust
 
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They ought to trust you because I think that's why they are always insecure
 

Tommy379

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Did he always ask you: What's wrong?
Are you ok?