Does this sound like it would work in helping me to get a girlfriend?
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Listen. to everyone reading this thread, especially dothackzero. Your inability to talk to girls is based on your view of yourself. for the longest time i could not talk to girls and i had no idea as to why. all my friends knew how to do it and i felt like there was something wrong with me. that was when i realised that there was nothing wrong with me but instead it was the view i had of myself. after i realised i was just as strong, smart, and attractive as other guys (and a bit of help from some girls on CC who didnt know they were helping me) i was able to confidently go out there and find the woman that God had planned for me, who i am currently dating. This is just whati think. you can agree or disagree, but honestly i dont care an overly amount
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Girls don't like it when you use other people to get to them... it looks weak and cowardly... just talk to a girl that you like yourself, and you say you don't know what to say but just throw yourself into the situation (after lots of prayer) and be confident but not cocky. Pray about it and see where God wants you. Be relaxed and yourself and eventually you'll find a girl that you should be with if it is planned for you. Don't be afraid of rejection the worst that can happen to you is a no and it is better to get a definite answer than sit and never know what would've happened if you had tried to talk to her. So if you find a girl you like just be yourself around her and be relaxed and pray about it ^_^ God Bless
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k, very simple if you want to get good at talking to women. Do exactly as I say and you will be absolutely fine.
First step, you have to stop caring about how an interaction will happen. The more you care the more nervous you will be.
Second, just talk to girls. Approach them for any random reason like directions, it doesn't matter if you know where something is you can still ask as a starter.
Third, simply be confident. Not Overconfident, but just confident. Be a bit cocky and a bit funny but not too much of either.
Now go and do these things and learn from experience. I have already said too much.
Your welcome.
First step, you have to stop caring about how an interaction will happen. The more you care the more nervous you will be.
Second, just talk to girls. Approach them for any random reason like directions, it doesn't matter if you know where something is you can still ask as a starter.
Third, simply be confident. Not Overconfident, but just confident. Be a bit cocky and a bit funny but not too much of either.
Now go and do these things and learn from experience. I have already said too much.
Your welcome.
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Then again this wouldnt really be a real life situation unless somehow the girl and him were both walking around with a device that could connect to the internet and both of them being in christianchat.com posting things on forums....
How to talk to girls in real life situations? One of my personal favorite suggestion to every and anything is "Never make a principle out of your experience" meaning I shouldn't think what works for Bobby and John is going to work for me, and vice versa, what works for me might not work for them. At the end, it all comes down to actually trying stuff out. So yes, just be yourself is a pretty good suggestion to take into mind and apply it.
Ifs having a girlfriend more important than God? That's idolatry, lets not cover it up with our Christianese. If God never gave me a spouse, would I still be His, after years of fighting the answer most assuredly is yes. Having a gf when your heart isn't right with God, is bad for both parties. Nothing good will come of it. You will settle, not for what God wants, but for what you kungfu grip on your idol wants. It's painful saying this, because it has been my way for so long.
We as men, are to be Jesus Christ to our wives or future wives. Women do not get this privilege, men do. If we are not the person God wants us to be, He definitely will not give us the one He wants us to be with. He may allow someone in your life, that takes you away from faith in Him, and makes you miserable. God will do that. Don't play with fire, we get burned every time
We as men, are to be Jesus Christ to our wives or future wives. Women do not get this privilege, men do. If we are not the person God wants us to be, He definitely will not give us the one He wants us to be with. He may allow someone in your life, that takes you away from faith in Him, and makes you miserable. God will do that. Don't play with fire, we get burned every time