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Alinagon

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Hey all

I've been single for veereeeeeeeey long and am lonely. I am 33 have 1 child and never have I been asked on a date in the last 4 to 5 years.

I've joined Christian dating sites but would you believe...... to no avail.

What's up with that?

Another thing: Why are white males scared or better word avoiding the mix race??????

Give me some tips. Please!
 
Crypto

Crypto

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Alinagon said:
Hey all

I've been single for veereeeeeeeey long and am lonely. I am 33 have 1 child and never have I been asked on a date in the last 4 to 5 years.

I've joined Christian dating sites but would you believe...... to no avail.

What's up with that?

Another thing: Why are white males scared or better word avoiding the mix race??????

Give me some tips. Please!
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Many men may be scared off by a woman having a kid, alot of men don't want the responsibility if they marry someone with a kid of having to raise that kid. It's a bit dumb I think, but I have heard and seen it before.

Some white men just have a preference of white women.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Don't worry about whether white guys seem to not want to do the interracial thing of if having a kid lessens your chances with men. Keep praying and looking and God will bring someone into your life. God's blessings are never limited by what the norm is, or seems to be. When you pray with a humble heart and do your best to honor Him with your actions and words throughout each day of your life He will grant you what you wish (as long as it is according to His will of course, but chances are He also wants you to find love). God bless you.
 
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jangel

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What’s up with that too?
I mean you can’t focus yourself from finding someone to date and put your happiness in it. You have a kid, where you can give most of your time. Learn to enjoy your everyday life without thinking of having someone in your life. Go out, enjoy your life with your friends and the people around you, things that you love doing the most and I’m sure along the way, God will provide you someone in the least that you can expect.:)
Mmmm…don’t you find your own race attractive?
One advantage only I see, if it’s a mix race… they produce beautiful fruits….really cuties... hehe
 
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Alinagon

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Hi

Wow thank you for the notes. I hear you all, it helps to hear others perspectives on things. Yeah I believe he will come some day. :D

I love all races not just my own --- I'm mix---- so do not have issues. :) But some do.

Blessings
Ali
 
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