Have u ever changed your view of someone?

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Jullianna

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#21
I can relate to your experience Jullianna. When I was a young lad around the age of 16 a friend of my dad's was giving me private guitar lessons at his home teaching me different techniques such as fingerpicking styles etc. He was a cool guy and everything then after a few lessons he brought up the importance of nail care and keeping the nails of my fingering hand trimmed short enough to be able to execute notes more clearly and easily as well as to prevent them from digging into the fret board. Then he even suggested I could get my nails manicured. I thought,"what? huh?" :eek:
I started laughing and said yeah whatever I know how to clip my own fingernails. He said well, I get my nails manicured...then he showed me. They were even buffed and shiny and for lack of a better word just too purdy for a guy. I just froze and since this was over 20 yrs ago I knew no men who got manicures and to me was a practice only reserved for women and gays. My mouth dropped a little, my face got serious. Sudden thoughts went through my head...... I hope he likes woman.....He's way older and I'm a young man I've heard stories about things like this....should I be in the room alone with him......I could probably take him if he was to try and get frisky but still looked for the first exit, the door was closed ....hmmmm.
I believe he noticed my sudden apprehension and what I must have been thinking.
He said NO NO it's not a gay thing some guys get manicures nowadays but you don't HAVE to get one just keep your nails in check for playing guitar.
Just to make myself feel better I had to ask him, "uh, you don't get your little piggies done too while you're at it do ya?" :D
LOL Welder! Well, I suppose I have him to thank for your awesome guitar skills, huh? :)
 
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NukePooch

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#23
I had the same question, Nuke....who knows...

P.S. - I like Kim Possible too. There are so few redhaired superheros. LOL Most of the time we're the bad guys...errr...girls. But c'mon....You don't like BATMAN?????? okay...I'm gonna have to make a totally new entry about this in this thread cos this totally changes my opinion of you. :)
Yes, I admit it..I don't like Batman. Not much for Superman either...or any of the Marvel stuff. I like superheroes that aren't in costumes...more like everyman superheroes. As far as your opinion of me changing, I don't know what it was before, or what it is now, so I guess I'm the same either way. It's all good. ~grin~
 
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MidniteWelder

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#24
Well? We're waiting....
haha. NukePooch...
I believe he just rolled his eyes at me and shook his head as if to suggest..."Whatever"
Still not an admission of guilt nor a denial though is it...
 
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MidniteWelder

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#25
LOL Welder! Well, I suppose I have him to thank for your awesome guitar skills, huh? :)
That was really sweet for you to say... thank you Jullianna :)
A thanks to him as well as Glory to the Lord for any skills I may have.;)
 
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nanabean

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#26
I can't imagine anyone not wanting to be YOUR best bud, nana :)

This is one of the nicest things anyone in CC has said to me!!! Thanks for making my day!
 
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asamanthinketh

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#27
Yes, but I also believe that people like to be givers, and so they withold their true love and blessings eventhough you might need them now.

In our minds it is very difficult to change an impression we have of another. That is if you have a mind.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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#28
My sad story


I was set up with a guy once. I really liked him over the phone, great voice, great personality. I met him. He looked like my sisters bulldog baxter. My view of my date, AND my sisters dog changed.
 
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I had the same question, Nuke....who knows...

P.S. - I like Kim Possible too. There are so few redhaired superheros. LOL Most of the time we're the bad guys...errr...girls. But c'mon....You don't like BATMAN?????? okay...I'm gonna have to make a totally new entry about this in this thread cos this totally changes my opinion of you. :)
I feel like such a nerd but

Jean Grey
Rachel Summers
Firestar
Marrow
Siryn
Cessily/Mercury
Medusa
Crystal
And those are just Marvel heroes off the top of my head in thirty seconds...
 
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NukePooch

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#30
I feel like such a nerd but

Jean Grey
Rachel Summers
Firestar
Marrow
Siryn
Cessily/Mercury
Medusa
Crystal
And those are just Marvel heroes off the top of my head in thirty seconds...
Perhaps you're a nerd, but at least you're not clueless...I had to Google them all.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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#31
He's also banned
 
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NukePooch

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#32
Too many Marvel references for the mods to deal with, I guess.