Finding that one good Christian girl God meant you to be with...

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Ty91

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Now where in the world do you find her? Lol. I've been in A LOT of relationships, but never a truly God focused one, which is likely the reason they failed... I was also home schooled all through high school, so I never got to meet as many people as many others do. Plus, where I've been the past 5 years kept me away from Christians, and I was mostly around people of another faith (which caused the problem of not knowing anyone right now lol).

Any tips? I doubt I could just go up to a pastor and be like "hook me up" :p. Anyways, hope I'm not just rambling on pointlessly.. God bless :)
 
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Credo_ut_Intelligam

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Ty91 said:
Now where in the world do you find her? Lol. I've been in A LOT of relationships, but never a truly God focused one, which is likely the reason they failed... I was also home schooled all through high school, so I never got to meet as many people as many others do. Plus, where I've been the past 5 years kept me away from Christians, and I was mostly around people of another faith (which caused the problem of not knowing anyone right now lol).

Any tips? I doubt I could just go up to a pastor and be like "hook me up" :p. Anyways, hope I'm not just rambling on pointlessly.. God bless :)
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Just focus on finding a girl that you get along with and has Christian virtues. After you marry her you'll know she is the one God wants you to be with. No need to break out the lots and divining rods.
 
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eric135

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Check the grocery store. Last time I checked, Christian girls have to eat... although... I may be wrong.
 
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Ty91

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Such enlightening advice ^^
 
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blackout

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Ty91 said:
Now where in the world do you find her? Lol. I've been in A LOT of relationships, but never a truly God focused one, which is likely the reason they failed... I was also home schooled all through high school, so I never got to meet as many people as many others do. Plus, where I've been the past 5 years kept me away from Christians, and I was mostly around people of another faith (which caused the problem of not knowing anyone right now lol).

Any tips? I doubt I could just go up to a pastor and be like "hook me up" :p. Anyways, hope I'm not just rambling on pointlessly.. God bless :)
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Yeah I feel you. I used to be in a relationship with a good christian girl but we broke up (long story lol:() So its been a while and im trying to find a good christian girl but its hard. I am homeschooled too and I do have a homeschool group where I live and there are some girls in there but there all taken pretty much lol except for a couple but one is my ex-gf sister (that would be kinda akward lol) and one doesnt want a bf so yeah. And one but she really isnt a christian... i mean she kinda is but I dont know I do kinda like her though but anway. I guess my advice to you would be to pray about it. im still looking for one with good morals and right with God. but i dont know if that helped i just thought i'd share my story with you :)
 
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Ty91

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blackout said:
Yeah I feel you. I used to be in a relationship with a good christian girl but we broke up (long story lol:() So its been a while and im trying to find a good christian girl but its hard. I am homeschooled too and I do have a homeschool group where I live and there are some girls in there but there all taken pretty much lol except for a couple but one is my ex-gf sister (that would be kinda akward lol) and one doesnt want a bf so yeah. And one but she really isnt a christian... i mean she kinda is but I dont know I do kinda like her though but anway. I guess my advice to you would be to pray about it. im still looking for one with good morals and right with God. but i dont know if that helped i just thought i'd share my story with you :)
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Ooh that's cool you got some stuff in common with me lol. Not many people understand it unless they've been through it. I wish I had gotten into the home school group here, but it's too late now since I finished high school over 2 years ago lol and finished college also.. So now it's find someone at church or nothing lol.
 
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eric135 said:
Check the grocery store. Last time I checked, Christian girls have to eat... although... I may be wrong.
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This is true. We require sustenance.
 
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GOD_IS_LOVE

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Just wondering, are you boys ready to consider marriage, or what's the point of finding a girl? Cause if you really want the one God has for you, you should do things God's way, and that would be to get a relationship when you are ready to consider marriage. Also, finding God's will in this aspect requires a practice of finding God's will in all aspects of life. God bless!
 
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If I ever figure out the answer to this question I'll tell you first. In the meantime I'll be single and thinking..........
 
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thimsrebma

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I think you could talk to your pastor or elders about it. Don't say "hook me up." But maybe you can discuss being ready for marriage and all that kind of stuff. Then when you feel ready ask about some of the single women in the church. You are young but that doesn't mean anything. Some people are ready faster than others. I think its also important for all of us singles to remember that we do not know how and when God is going to bring us our mate. So your job is to be the best you you can be and be prepare as much as possible for them while you actively wait.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Ty91 said:
Now where in the world do you find her? Lol. I've been in A LOT of relationships, but never a truly God focused one, which is likely the reason they failed... I was also home schooled all through high school, so I never got to meet as many people as many others do. Plus, where I've been the past 5 years kept me away from Christians, and I was mostly around people of another faith (which caused the problem of not knowing anyone right now lol).

Any tips? I doubt I could just go up to a pastor and be like "hook me up" :p. Anyways, hope I'm not just rambling on pointlessly.. God bless :)
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I've been in A LOT of relationships,


I think you should use that as your pick up line
 
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Ty91 said:
Now where in the world do you find her? Lol. I've been in A LOT of relationships, but never a truly God focused one, which is likely the reason they failed... I was also home schooled all through high school, so I never got to meet as many people as many others do. Plus, where I've been the past 5 years kept me away from Christians, and I was mostly around people of another faith (which caused the problem of not knowing anyone right now lol).

Any tips? I doubt I could just go up to a pastor and be like "hook me up" :p. Anyways, hope I'm not just rambling on pointlessly.. God bless :)
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19 bro....

I don't know about what age people get married there (where you are from) but here, that is wee bit young.

When I was 19 I was trying to figure out how to make my Car go faster.
 
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NukePooch

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Liamson said:
19 bro....

I don't know about what age people get married there (where you are from) but here, that is wee bit young.

When I was 19 I was trying to figure out how to make my Car go faster.
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...I'm 35 and still hung up on that one.
 
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I take it the need to make things go faster never goes away....



hmm...


WOOO HOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jullianna

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faster...must go faster :)
 
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wdheart

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I believe churches should focus more on that aspect of Christian life. It is hard to date as a Christian especially when you think your limited to whats available at your own personal home church. I don't see what's wrong with single Christians in general coming together a few times a year for some single social events. I'm talking about state to state no specific denominations required just people who truly believe in the bible and that Jesus is our savior. I do believe we as Christians could limit ourselves to what God has for us by not branching out to other churches and denominations for socializing or just expressing love for another fellow Christian forget title or a few disagreements were all brothers and sisters in the Lord.
 
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thimsrebma

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wdheart said:
I believe churches should focus more on that aspect of Christian life. It is hard to date as a Christian especially when you think your limited to whats available at your own personal home church. I don't see what's wrong with single Christians in general coming together a few times a year for some single social events. I'm talking about state to state no specific denominations required just people who truly believe in the bible and that Jesus is our savior. I do believe we as Christians could limit ourselves to what God has for us by not branching out to other churches and denominations for socializing or just expressing love for another fellow Christian forget title or a few disagreements were all brothers and sisters in the Lord.
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You are right when you say, staying within our own church limits us.

I think that part of the problem is that alot of pastors/ministers believe so strongly in their denom., and that it is The Truth, that they will not allow organized fellowship with churches that are not the same denom. It is almost like they fear that the others will taint their doctrine.

Because of this I think it is up to each individual to branch out in fellowship, being led by the Spirit of course, into other churches where you can meet new people who love The Lord just as much as you do.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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im proud of myself for reviving this thread.
 
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FireWire

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GOD_IS_LOVE said:
Just wondering, are you boys ready to consider marriage, or what's the point of finding a girl? Cause if you really want the one God has for you, you should do things God's way, and that would be to get a relationship when you are ready to consider marriage. Also, finding God's will in this aspect requires a practice of finding God's will in all aspects of life. God bless!
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No, no and no
 
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