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NOTE: TO ALL SINGLES FORUM READERS
I have read most of the post in the singles forum and have noticed a trend in pretty much every single thread.
Almost all of the regular commenters are single and mid-late twenties.
This normally would not be a problem except for the fact that nothing is getting done except all of you repeating the same lines over and over again.
I have read thread after thread of women complaining about a lack of Godly men and men a lack of Godly women.
This whole notion needs to stop.
There are plenty of Godly men and women, the problem is that you are not looking properly.
Dont get my wrong, i do not claim to have any special knowledge, I am no relationship expert.
The only advice I can give to all of you complainers is this:
The Christian life is like a race, we are running towards the goals that God has set before us. The way that you know that someone is right for you is if you see someone running as fast as you are towards those same goals as you. If you are moving faster than them in oyur faith then you should not slow down for them, and in contrast if they are running faster than you you shouldnt want to hold them back in their race towards Christ.
However if you see a Christian running at the same speed as you and there is a natural attraction between you than there is nothing stopping you from getting married. Never once in the Bible does it say there there is only one person you can marry and thats it. Infact this notion is a silly notion because if that was true then your "perfect match" could already be married, thus screwing over you and another person, and then the chain reaction can go on from there.
So basicially what i am saying is that you should stop complaining about a lack of Christian men and women but rather look at the goals God has set before you and wait until you are alongside another believer going in the same direction and at the same speed as you.
Just my thoughts.
I have read most of the post in the singles forum and have noticed a trend in pretty much every single thread.
Almost all of the regular commenters are single and mid-late twenties.
This normally would not be a problem except for the fact that nothing is getting done except all of you repeating the same lines over and over again.
I have read thread after thread of women complaining about a lack of Godly men and men a lack of Godly women.
This whole notion needs to stop.
There are plenty of Godly men and women, the problem is that you are not looking properly.
Dont get my wrong, i do not claim to have any special knowledge, I am no relationship expert.
The only advice I can give to all of you complainers is this:
The Christian life is like a race, we are running towards the goals that God has set before us. The way that you know that someone is right for you is if you see someone running as fast as you are towards those same goals as you. If you are moving faster than them in oyur faith then you should not slow down for them, and in contrast if they are running faster than you you shouldnt want to hold them back in their race towards Christ.
However if you see a Christian running at the same speed as you and there is a natural attraction between you than there is nothing stopping you from getting married. Never once in the Bible does it say there there is only one person you can marry and thats it. Infact this notion is a silly notion because if that was true then your "perfect match" could already be married, thus screwing over you and another person, and then the chain reaction can go on from there.
So basicially what i am saying is that you should stop complaining about a lack of Christian men and women but rather look at the goals God has set before you and wait until you are alongside another believer going in the same direction and at the same speed as you.
Just my thoughts.