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I was wondering is it possible to have an Ex, whether wife or girlfriend, do something that cause the relationship to end and be so mad at themselves that they want you to hate them, but when you don't, they get mad and treat you bad so that you will hate them?
Let me explain: I had a girlfriend who cheated on me (before I was a believer) with my best friend. I saw her recently and she was just so angry with me that she embarrassed me in front of some people that I was informing about GOD. I started to talk to her and she was saying things that were hurtful and untrue. She kept saying I understand if you hate me, which I replied I didn't. The more I said I wasn't angry or that I didn't hate her, the angrier she got. I was finally asked to leave the community center so she would and could calm down. I saw her at the mall yesterday and she said she felt so mad at herself for doing what she did that she sees me and gets angry at me because I don't hate her.
My Ex-wife is less than friendly to me and never wants to talk about anything. She has called me a stalker, a psycho and so on. All I want is information on my daughter, not about her personal life, but never-the-less, she is always mad at me. She did respond to my text yesterday, which she has never done but is it possible to act toward someone, in a way, so they will treat you how you feel you should be treated?
In my Ex's defense, for a while I felt like I had no closure. She just stopped feeling what she had and moved on. She went to the next stage and I was left wondering what happened. I never followed her or asked about her or anything and she still felt like I was invading her privacy. I would take her back in a second but only if that is GOD's wish for us, if not then I am good. Sorry to ramble but once I started typing I couldn't stop. Thank you and GOD bless.
Let me explain: I had a girlfriend who cheated on me (before I was a believer) with my best friend. I saw her recently and she was just so angry with me that she embarrassed me in front of some people that I was informing about GOD. I started to talk to her and she was saying things that were hurtful and untrue. She kept saying I understand if you hate me, which I replied I didn't. The more I said I wasn't angry or that I didn't hate her, the angrier she got. I was finally asked to leave the community center so she would and could calm down. I saw her at the mall yesterday and she said she felt so mad at herself for doing what she did that she sees me and gets angry at me because I don't hate her.
My Ex-wife is less than friendly to me and never wants to talk about anything. She has called me a stalker, a psycho and so on. All I want is information on my daughter, not about her personal life, but never-the-less, she is always mad at me. She did respond to my text yesterday, which she has never done but is it possible to act toward someone, in a way, so they will treat you how you feel you should be treated?
In my Ex's defense, for a while I felt like I had no closure. She just stopped feeling what she had and moved on. She went to the next stage and I was left wondering what happened. I never followed her or asked about her or anything and she still felt like I was invading her privacy. I would take her back in a second but only if that is GOD's wish for us, if not then I am good. Sorry to ramble but once I started typing I couldn't stop. Thank you and GOD bless.