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I've been sitting here for quite some time tonight reading through all of these threads. I've typed several lengthy responses to some, but keep arrowing back and moving on to another thread...
We all share our thoughts here about the sorts of relationships we want/don't want, the sort of person we'd like to be with, the sort of person we'd like to be for the type of person we want to be with, and so on...but I find myself wondering how that will ever matter if we don't get the opportunity to truly know someone we might be interested in or for them to know us...
Seems like the guys in these threads are frustrated because they are expected to make the first move, pursue a lady they are interested in (that is, if the polls are a true reflection of our views), and basically try to figure out how to read our minds...
The ladies are frustrated because they want to be godly women, but society, and sometimes the men in the threads, tell us that we need to be something different if we don't want to be alone...
It's all so confusing and overwhelming sometimes. You see a guy you like, but you can't say so because it would be unladylike and aggressive. You want to compliment him, but you're afraid that he'll take it the wrong way, so you just don't say anything. You're very friendly with guys you consider just friends, but aren't quite sure what to say to the one you really like. You want to PM him or initiate a conversation with him, but that might be too bold. Then you think maybe he's talking with someone else or working on something and you'll be interrupting. Then you think he's probably not interested in you anyway. Sooooooooo...in your shyness, you just quietly go your way, and he's probably thinking you're wierd and stuck up.
Forgive my random ponderings. It's the middle of the night. As I read back through this, I'm tempted to dump it too, but I'm posting it anyway. I'll probably regret it in the morning, but I have a feeling I'm not the only one who feels this way...
We all share our thoughts here about the sorts of relationships we want/don't want, the sort of person we'd like to be with, the sort of person we'd like to be for the type of person we want to be with, and so on...but I find myself wondering how that will ever matter if we don't get the opportunity to truly know someone we might be interested in or for them to know us...
Seems like the guys in these threads are frustrated because they are expected to make the first move, pursue a lady they are interested in (that is, if the polls are a true reflection of our views), and basically try to figure out how to read our minds...
The ladies are frustrated because they want to be godly women, but society, and sometimes the men in the threads, tell us that we need to be something different if we don't want to be alone...
It's all so confusing and overwhelming sometimes. You see a guy you like, but you can't say so because it would be unladylike and aggressive. You want to compliment him, but you're afraid that he'll take it the wrong way, so you just don't say anything. You're very friendly with guys you consider just friends, but aren't quite sure what to say to the one you really like. You want to PM him or initiate a conversation with him, but that might be too bold. Then you think maybe he's talking with someone else or working on something and you'll be interrupting. Then you think he's probably not interested in you anyway. Sooooooooo...in your shyness, you just quietly go your way, and he's probably thinking you're wierd and stuck up.
Forgive my random ponderings. It's the middle of the night. As I read back through this, I'm tempted to dump it too, but I'm posting it anyway. I'll probably regret it in the morning, but I have a feeling I'm not the only one who feels this way...