seperated and wondering what is next

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mrSmith

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My wife left about a month ago. It had a lot to do with our lives going in different directions. I was trying to get closer to God and she was running away. I have unconditional love for her but she started to feel like we where too different and she just left one day without warning. I'm sure she turned her back on God at the same time but that is between her and God. I pray for her every day and it's really hard to loose someone you love so much.
Now I am starting to realize I may be looking for someone to share my life with in the future and it's a strange feeling. I find myself thinking maybe I will even have kids some day. I know it would be best if I met someone that had a close relationship with God. We are not actually divorced yet but we have almost no communication. Maybe God has a surprise in store. I trust He will work it out for good no matter what.
Thanks for listening
 
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Jullianna

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mrsmith, please don't think your thread is being ignored. It has apparently been viewed by many, but perhaps they are as I...at a lost as to what to say. Perhaps it is best to simply let you know that we do care and have been praying for you.

As you say, God knows what's best for all of us and we know He has a plan for each of us. We can rest in that.

Feel free to sound off in here anytime. We really are listening. :) Be blessed!
 
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Shosho1982

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Mr Smith

I am sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain in every word you wrote here.

I am currently going through the same thing. In my case it is even more painful because we have a 2 year old son.

I wish I knew the right words to comfort you. It is hard. I wish I knew the answers.

I will pray for you as much as I pray for myself. I find comfort in knowing that God is in control, ALWAYS!!!
 
grace

grace

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Yes, lots pray even though they never post.

Keep seeking God for all the decisions you make. Serve Him with your words, and actions. You will never regret it.

Blessings
 
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GratefulLeighHis

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Seek God first, Pray a lot and continue to nurture your relationship with Christ. Closure is important, legally and emotionally before one can move on. Remember (In all honesty) if a woman really loves the Lord, they will limit their relationship with you to platonic until you are legally divorced. And even then, at your age, you should take some time to re-discover your life, your goals, etc. May God stay close to you at this time and all times. God bless you.
 
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