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pearljammer

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Everyone talks about being in love and finding that perfect person for themselves...but how do you know?? I don't think I've ever been in love but I'm not sure, and I've definately never met anyone I want to marry...at least I don't think so...lol. But sometimes I think that maybe I'm being too picky, maybe there just isn't that person you dream about, and I mean that literally, there's a girl who shows up in my dreams every now and then and I'm like, that's her, that's the one. I've never met her though, and I don't believe in all that dream stuff...so maybe she doesn't exist. Maybe I'll spend my whole life waiting on a ghost, a figment of imagination, and miss the one right in front of my eyes....

Any advice?
 
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blindfaith7

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#2
Don't ever feel bad about being picky, God wants the very best for us and it is up to us to draw close to Him so that we know was he or she may
look like, spiritually. That is how you know. Only God knows what we truly desire (what the perfect creation/mate for each of us looks like). Seek
God's purpose first and He will provide completeness to you in His time and with all He does....it will be Good. Blessings!
 
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luke15chick

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#3
There's a Christian author called Donald Miller. He's written books such as: Blue Like Jazz, Searching for God knows what and other stuff. I had an opportunity to listen to a talk he gave. Included in the talk he discussed falling in love,he asked a college student what were the steps of falling in love. She responded that it wasn't exactly a scientific process and he said that it was right. I myself having been in love once agree. It's not that if you do step 1, 2 and 3 that you'll know you're in love. When you're there you just know. Some call it a gut feeling others intuition. Making friends with girls is a good way to get to know them on a better basis to know if they are someone to date.
 

Robertt

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and of course remember once you fall in love SHOW that love to the one you LOVE .

LOVE is only LOVE when it has ACTIONS accompanying it.
 

Lynx

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and of course remember once you fall in love SHOW that love to the one you LOVE .

LOVE is only LOVE when it has ACTIONS accompanying it.
This is from more than two decades ago...
 

Robertt

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#6
yep with no Chat App working i am going thu the whole forum to find interesting Threads

Hopefully they fix the issue soon
 

Lynx

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#8
yep with no Chat App working i am going thu the whole forum to find interesting Threads

Hopefully they fix the issue soon
Man... if you're THAT desperately bored, I could recommend a few freeware video games that are quite good. TAGAP and TAGAP 2, Exit Fate, Freedroid RPG, Neverball and Neverputt, etc, etc...
 

Robertt

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Never heard of any of them

I only play games where I get sone interaction like ekder scrolls online
I love online MP games
again I am. Not a loner